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Valentina Mengarelli

Valentina Mengarelli

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Calm, practical support for stressful times

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  • Client-centred approach
  • Mindfulness tools
  • Works in three languages

About Valentina

Valentina Mengarelli is a counsellor working in the United Kingdom with a BACP registration and five years of professional experience. She focuses on practical support for people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, low mood and sleeping problems. Valentina also helps with self-esteem, motivation and changes that feel hard to manage. She uses a conversational, respectful style and adapts sessions to each person. Valentina draws on client-centred work to put the person’s concerns at the centre of the conversation. She also uses mindfulness approaches to help people manage tension and recurring thoughts. In sessions she listens for what matters most and helps people set achievable steps. This can include simple breathing and grounding exercises, practising different ways of talking to yourself, and planning small actions that build confidence. She aims to make practical changes feel manageable rather than overwhelming. Valentina has experience supporting people with relationship and family stress, parenting strain, career worries, addiction-related concerns, trauma and abuse, and anger. She also assists with issues such as abandonment, attachment difficulties, body image, codependency and coping with loss or separation. Sessions are offered in English, Spanish and Italian, and she accepts clients from outside the UK. If someone is unsure where to begin Valentina asks a few questions to clarify goals and tailors the plan from there. The approach is collaborative and paced to suit each person’s needs.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Spanish, Italian

How client-centred and mindfulness work online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person in the room. The therapist listens without judgement and follows the client’s pace, helping them find their own priorities and solutions. This approach often helps with low mood, self-esteem and the stress of life changes. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity to difficult thoughts and feelings. It can be useful for anxiety, sleep problems and managing anger by creating space before reacting. Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Valentina will talk through goals, preferences and practical needs and suggest whether client-centred conversations, mindfulness exercises, or a mix feels best. This is a collaborative process and plans are adjusted as things change. The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Many people find online therapy helps fit sessions into a busy week, makes it easier to keep regular appointments, and lets them use short check-ins when time is limited. Others prefer longer conversations when they can set aside a larger slot. Registered or accredited professionals, including therapists on this site, often adapt session length and tools to match each person’s routine and needs.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
5+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English, Spanish, Italian
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 400017

As listed by the therapist. You can check a registration with the body that issued it.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be discussed in sessions?

Valentina supports people with stress, anxiety, sleeping problems, low mood and self-esteem concerns. She also works with anger, relationship and family pressures, parenting strain, addictions, trauma and related difficulties.

How would she approach my difficulties in therapy?

The style is conversational and client-centred, with mindfulness techniques where helpful. Expect practical tools, short exercises and a focus on small steps that fit everyday life.

How much experience does she have?

She has five years of professional experience supporting people with a range of concerns including anxiety, depression and sleeping difficulties.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Yes. She accepts international clients and can work with people based outside the United Kingdom.

Which session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current options before booking to know which formats are offered.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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