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Todd Bater

Todd Bater

LCSW-R

Therapist · New York · 18+ years of experience

Practical therapy for stress and anger

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  • 18 years experience
  • Nonreligious approach
  • Affirming for LGBTQ+

About Todd

Todd Bater is a licensed clinical social worker who brings 18 years of experience to his practice in New York. He helps people facing depression, anxiety, stress, anger, and relationship challenges. He also works with those processing grief and seeking clearer life direction.

Todd focuses on building practical skills people can use every day. He listens for patterns in communication and emotion. Then he helps clients try different ways of responding to stressful situations. The aim is better self-understanding and more useful habits over time.

He pays attention to social isolation and communication problems. He supports people navigating divorce, separation, and family of origin issues. He also brings experience with first responder stress, veteran and armed forces issues, and concerns common to men in midlife.

Todd offers an affirming, non-religious space and reports particular commitment to LGBTQ+ clients. He works at a pace set by each person and uses everyday language rather than clinical jargon. Sessions focus on skills, reflection, and steps people can try between meetings.

Clients can expect a straightforward, compassionate approach aimed at building resilience. The therapist helps people develop clearer communication, manage strong emotions like anger, and find practical paths forward. He guides change without prescribing a single way to heal.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefAnger managementDepression

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeCommunication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Experience

18+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Two evidence-based approaches Todd emphasizes are practical skills training and emotion-focused work. Practical skills training teaches concrete ways to respond to stress, manage anger, and improve communication through step-by-step strategies people can practice between sessions. Emotion-focused work helps people notice their feelings, name what matters, and try new responses when emotions run high.

Finding the right approach happens together. The therapist will ask about goals, current challenges, and what feels useful. Then he will suggest techniques and adjust them based on feedback so the plan fits the person's needs and preferences.

Confirm session formats before scheduling, as they are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow check-ins during a break from work. It can also let people choose shorter or longer sessions depending on what they need that week. Discuss format options when you schedule so sessions match practical needs and goals.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
18+ years
Credentials
LCSW-R
Languages
English
License (New York)
LCSW-R · No. 081641
NPI
1477877942

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Todd address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, relationship issues, and grief, along with related concerns like isolation and communication problems.

What is his general therapeutic style?

His style is compassionate and practical, focusing on skill-building and clearer communication in everyday language rather than technical terms.

How much clinical experience does he have?

Todd has 18 years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and life challenges.

What credentials and region are listed?

He holds the credential LCSW-R and practices in New York.

Which languages are supported and can international clients work together?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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