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Thomas Barlee

Thomas Barlee

LCSW

Therapist · Delaware · 9+ years of experience

Calm, practical support for difficult emotions

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  • Focus on relationships
  • Skills for anger
  • Values-based work

About Thomas

Thomas Barlee is a licensed social worker in Delaware who helps people facing relationship struggles, anger, depression, and issues around intimacy. He offers a calm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk through hard feelings and start making small changes. Taking the first step toward a happier life can feel risky, and he aims to make that step easier to take.

With nine years of experience as an LCSW - Licensed Clinical Social Worker, he draws on a few practical therapy methods to guide sessions. He listens for what matters most to each person and then helps set clear, manageable goals. Sessions focus on skills people can use between meetings, not just talk in the office.

Thomas blends acceptance-based work with cognitive and mindfulness strategies to help people respond differently to stress and anger. He also uses client-centered conversations and motivational interviewing to build motivation and clarify values. That mix lets him tailor sessions to the person in front of him rather than follow a fixed script.

Clients can expect straightforward, respectful conversations about thoughts, behaviors, and values. He often works on communication skills, coping plans for intense emotions, and steps to rebuild trust or confidence. The aim is steady, practical progress rather than quick fixes.

People come for many reasons including addiction concerns, trauma or grief, parenting strain, ADHD, and caregiver stress. He also supports those navigating life transitions like divorce or relocation, helping them find ways to move forward.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

Delaware

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anger, depression, and stress when someone wants clearer direction on what matters. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical skills for changing patterns that cause distress. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and coping problems. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and improve focus; it pairs well with work on anger and stress management.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will listen to your goals and try methods that fit your needs. That collaborative process means techniques can be adjusted as you learn what helps most.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce commute time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people use practices and homework in the settings where they live and work, which can speed up applying new skills in daily life.

At a glance

Listed location
Delaware
Experience
9+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Delaware)
LCSW · No. Q1-0012051
NPI
1386386837

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with people facing relationship and intimacy problems, anger, depression, anxiety, addiction, grief, trauma, parenting strain, ADHD, and related challenges.

What is his general therapy style?

He keeps sessions practical and person-focused, combining listening with clear steps people can try between meetings to manage emotions and improve communication.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has nine years of professional experience as a licensed social worker supporting people through a range of emotional and relational issues.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is an LCSW - Licensed Clinical Social Worker - licensed in Delaware and practices there.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts clients from outside the United States.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm the current options before booking so you know whether remote or in-person meetings are offered.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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