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Tammy Barnum

Tammy Barnum

LMHC

Therapist · New York · 22+ years of experience

A steady, practical guide through strong emotions

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  • 22 years experience
  • Person-centered focus
  • Practical tools

About Tammy

Tammy Barnum is a licensed mental health counselor with 22 years of clinical experience who helps people facing anger, stress, anxiety, and life changes. She aims to create a calm place where clients feel heard and supported. Her manner is straightforward and encouraging for people who want practical ways to manage feelings and move forward.

She has worked in schools, community programs, and mental health clinics. That variety means she has seen many life situations and practical ways to help. Tammy uses a mix of client-centered work, cognitive behavioral techniques, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and narrative approaches to match what each person needs.

In sessions she listens for the client’s goals, then helps build steps to reach them. That can include identifying unhelpful thoughts, practicing grounding and mindfulness, or shaping new personal stories that reduce shame and isolation. She focuses on what people can do between sessions as well as during them.

Tammy believes people already have strengths to draw on and that therapy often begins by noticing those strengths. She offers direct guidance when someone is stuck and gentle coaching when people want to build new habits. Her style mixes practical tools with a respectful, person-focused approach.

Clients come for help with many concerns such as relationships, parenting stress, grief, trauma, addictions, depression, ADHD, body image, and eating issues. Tammy works from New York and conducts therapy in English.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Domestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How Tammy Uses Evidence-Based Approaches Online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on the person first and helps people feel understood so they can set their own goals. In practice this means Tammy listens carefully, reflects what she hears, and helps clients identify what matters most to them.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the connections between thoughts, feelings, and actions. Tammy uses CBT-style exercises to spot unhelpful thinking, test those thoughts, and try new behaviors that reduce anger or anxiety.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing exercises to reduce reactivity and increase calm. These skills can help with sleeping, stress, and moment-to-moment management of strong emotions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Tammy works with each person to choose methods that match their goals and daily life. She checks in regularly and adjusts tools and pacing so therapy stays useful and relevant.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the available session options before booking. Tammy can explain how she applies these approaches remotely and help make sessions fit into a workday, a parenting schedule, or other commitments. Online work can make it easier to practice short skill drills between meetings, schedule regular check-ins, or avoid travel time when life is busy.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
22+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (New York)
LMHC · No. 011544
NPI
1326527169

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Tammy help with?

She helps people coping with anger, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship strain, parenting stress, addictions, eating concerns, ADHD, and related life changes.

What is her therapy style like?

Tammy uses a person-centered, straightforward approach and mixes practical tools with listening. Sessions focus on goals, coping skills, and small steps people can use between meetings.

How long has she been practicing?

She has 22 years of experience working in schools, community programs, and mental health clinics.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, NY LMHC, and she practices in New York.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Tammy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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