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Stefan Bain

Stefan Bain

LCSW

Therapist · Tennessee · 30+ years of experience

Sex-focused therapist for men

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  • 30 years experience
  • LCSW in Tennessee
  • Focus on anger

About Stefan

Stefan Bain is an LCSW with 30 years of clinical experience. He practices in Tennessee and offers therapy in English. His work often focuses on sex-related concerns for men, and he also addresses related issues such as anger, addiction, anxiety, depression, trauma, and body acceptance.

Stefan was educated at the University of California, Berkeley and completed postgraduate training at Vanderbilt University. He brings a long history of clinical practice and a range of approaches to therapy shaped by that experience. He emphasizes practical tools clients can use after treatment ends.

Sessions with Stefan are described as warm and interactive. He listens closely and adapts conversation and treatment to each person’s situation. The emphasis is on working together to reduce distress and build skills that last beyond sessions.

His work often links sexual concerns with other life stressors. That means conversations can include topics such as anger management, addiction, sleep problems, or relationship strain when these affect sexual health. Stefan aims to respect each person’s values while helping them move toward goals they set.

Stefan uses a mix of well-known therapeutic methods and shapes them to the individual. The plan for therapy is collaborative and practical, with attention to small steps that make daily life feel more manageable.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Tennessee, California

Languages

English

How Stefan’s approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) invites people to notice difficult thoughts and feelings while clarifying personal values and taking small, meaningful actions. It can help when anxiety, anger, or sexual concerns get in the way of the life someone wants. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and teaches step-by-step skills for changing unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, depression, sleep difficulties, and addiction-related behaviors. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationship patterns and can help people who struggle with intimacy, trust, or repeated relationship problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Stefan will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their goals, preferences, and day-to-day needs. That collaboration means trying techniques, checking how they feel in practice, and adjusting the plan as progress is made.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow a shorter check-in when time is limited, and reduce travel time. These practical benefits can help someone stay consistent with therapy and apply new skills in everyday life.

At a glance

Listed location
Tennessee
Experience
30+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Tennessee)
LCSW · No. 6460
License (California)
LCSW · No. 21512
NPI
1639415276

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He helps people with sex-related concerns for men and addresses related issues like anger, addiction, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, sleep problems, and self-esteem.

What is his general therapy style?

His approach is warm and interactive. He adapts conversation to the person's needs and focuses on practical tools to use between sessions.

How long has he been practicing?

He has 30 years of clinical experience as a psychotherapist, with education at UC Berkeley and postgraduate training at Vanderbilt University.

Where is this therapist located and what are his credentials?

He practices in Tennessee and holds the LCSW credential. The profile lists CA LCSW and TN LCSW as credential details.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and he does accept international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm the current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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