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Sheri Pate

Sheri Pate

LMFT

Therapist · California · 16+ years of experience

Mindfulness-focused therapist guiding calm change

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  • Mindfulness exercises
  • Strengths oriented
  • 16 years experience

About Sheri

Sheri Pate is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who emphasizes mindfulness and gentle self-acceptance. She welcomes people where they are and focuses on practical exercises that reduce stress and sharpen awareness. Sheri uses breathing, guided imagery, and relaxation to help clients calm strong emotions and think more clearly.

She pairs mindfulness with talk-based methods to address anxiety, anger, depression, and relationship concerns. Sheri draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Emotionally-Focused and Attachment-Based ideas to look at patterns in thinking and relating. The goal is to help people notice unhelpful habits and try different responses.

Sheri has practiced for 16 years and began teaching mindfulness and visualization in 2002. She led yoga, meditation, and mindfulness groups across the country from 2011 to 2022, including virtual offerings during the pandemic. Those groups inform how she combines movement, breath, and mental exercises in therapy.

Her training includes an undergraduate degree in psychology from UCLA and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from California Lutheran University. She also developed a simple awareness card game called Witness Cards to help clients spot areas for change more easily.

In sessions Sheri focuses on strengths and step-by-step change. She guides relaxation and imagery practices, and she works with clients to build new habits that fit daily life. The approach emphasizes small, doable steps toward more enjoyment and meaning.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How mindfulness and CBT translate to online work

Many of Sheri's methods adapt well to remote sessions because they focus on noticing thoughts and practicing simple exercises. Attachment-Based Therapy helps people understand how past connection patterns shape current reactions and relationships; it emphasizes safety and new ways of relating. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going and teaches clear steps to try different responses. Mindfulness Therapy uses short, practical exercises to calm intense feelings and bring attention back to the present.

Choosing the right approach happens together. Sheri will talk with a client about goals, try a few techniques, and adjust based on what helps. That collaborative process means the plan can shift as needs and preferences become clearer.

Practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions into daily life more easily and keeping progress between meetings. Check with the therapist or platform to confirm which session formats are available before booking. Online work can make it simpler to practice guided breathing, imagery, and short behavioral experiments during the week without long travel times.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
16+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 45065
NPI
1528295490

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Sheri help address?

Sheri works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, anger, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, ADHD, bipolar challenges, sleep difficulty, parenting stress, and career worries.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style combines mindfulness practices with talk therapy. She uses breathing, guided imagery, and awareness exercises alongside cognitive and emotionally focused techniques.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 16 years of experience and has taught mindfulness and visualization since 2002, including leading yoga and meditation groups nationwide from 2011 to 2022.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, CA LMFT, and she practices in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the country work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Sheri?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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