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Shelly Sanders

Shelly Sanders

LCSW

Therapist · Idaho · 9+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for strong emotions

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  • Anger management skills
  • Practical coping tools
  • Client-centered care

About Shelly

Shelly Sanders is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) practicing in Idaho who helps people handle anger, stress, anxiety, depression, and related concerns. She offers a calm, respectful presence and focuses on practical steps clients can use every day. Shelly works with adults and adolescents across a wide range of life challenges. She aims to make the first steps feel manageable for someone who is worried or overwhelmed.

Shelly’s style is warm and interactive. Sessions are client-centered and shaped around each person’s needs and goals. She uses clear, attainable plans so progress can be tracked over time. Expect direct conversations about what’s working, what isn’t, and small skills to try between sessions.

Her clinical toolbox includes attachment-based ideas, cognitive behavioral methods, dialectical behavior strategies, and EMDR when appropriate. These approaches are used alongside solution-focused work and, when helpful, play-based techniques with younger clients. The focus is on building coping skills, improving communication, and reducing intense reactions like anger.

Shelly brings nine years of therapy experience and additional years in other mental health roles. That background influences how she structures care and sets realistic goals with clients. She values collaboration and strives to create a supportive environment for change.

If you decide to reach out, she asks people to describe what brings them in and what they hope to change. This helps create a plan that fits daily life and individual priorities.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

Idaho

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape reactions today and focuses on building more secure ways to connect and regulate emotions. This can help with relationship strain, anger, and patterns that feel stuck. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, examines unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and teaches practical skills to shift thoughts, reduce anxiety, and change problem behaviors. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, adds tools for managing intense emotions and improving distress tolerance and interpersonal effectiveness.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with each person to match methods to their goals, needs, and preferences. That means trying a skill, reviewing how it worked, and adjusting the plan together rather than committing to a single path up front.

Session formats and technical details are not listed here, so confirm the current options before booking. Online work can make therapy easier to fit into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow brief check-ins when needed. It can also let people practice skills between sessions in real-life settings while discussing results with their therapist.

At a glance

Listed location
Idaho
Experience
9+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Idaho)
LCSW · No. LCSW - 39692
NPI
1396274056

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shelly help with?

Shelly supports people dealing with anger, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and related issues. She also addresses ADHD, addictions, relationship and family concerns, grief, parenting challenges, sleep and eating problems, and career and life transitions.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her approach is warm, interactive, and client-centered. She works with each person to build specific, time-sensitive plans and focuses on practical skills to try between sessions.

What experience does she bring?

Shelly has nine years of experience as a therapist and additional years working in mental health settings with children, adolescents, and adults.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a licensed clinical social worker, LCSW, practicing in Idaho.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States schedule sessions?

International clients are not currently accepted; scheduling is for clients located where the therapist is licensed.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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