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Selena Zafar

Selena Zafar

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Compassionate person-centred counsellor

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  • Person-Centred Therapy
  • BACP member
  • Focus on identity

About Selena

Selena Zafar is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people work through anger and related concerns. She offers a calm, non-judgemental space for clients to talk about stress, grief, relationship strain, self-esteem and other difficult feelings. Selena writes plainly and listens closely so people feel heard and respected from the first session.

She follows the Person-Centred approach originally developed by Carl Rogers, which means she treats each person as the expert on their own life. Sessions focus on what matters to the client and move at a comfortable pace set by them. The work is collaborative - goals are agreed together and adjusted as needs change.

Selena trained as a counsellor and holds a Master of Science degree, which she completed recently. Her background includes personal experience of therapy, and she draws on that perspective when supporting others. She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

She has particular interest in cultural and identity issues and comes from a multi-faith, multi-cultural background. This informs her understanding of race, bereavement and identity-related struggles without assuming any single experience applies to everyone.

Her practice addresses a wide range of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, parenting pressures, career stress and anger. People who prefer a respectful, patient and empathetic counsellor may find her style helpful.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How person-centred work can translate to online counselling

Person-Centred Therapy focuses on empathy, genuine listening and acceptance. The counsellor aims to provide a warm, non-judgemental space so people can talk through feelings like anger, grief or anxiety. This approach suits issues where being heard and understood helps people find their own solutions.

Selena emphasises working at the client's pace and agreeing goals together. In practice this means sessions follow the person's concerns and priorities rather than a fixed agenda. She will collaborate with each client to decide how to proceed and adjust the approach as the work unfolds.

Many people find online sessions helpful because they can fit talks into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow more flexible scheduling. Different ways of meeting have practical trade-offs, for example a shorter audio check-in can be useful when someone has limited time or bandwidth. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm which options are available before booking. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often adapt the person-centred approach to work effectively at a distance, focusing on consistent listening, clear goals and a steady therapeutic relationship.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
3+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 394199

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be addressed here?

Sessions cover a wide range of concerns such as stress, anxiety, anger, grief, relationship strain, self-esteem, addictions and career worries. Additional focus areas include identity and culture, bereavement and eating-related issues.

How would you describe the therapy style?

The counsellor uses a Person-Centred approach that focuses on empathy and respect. Work is collaborative and paced to the client's needs.

What is the counsellor's background?

She holds a Master of Science degree and trained in counselling after experiencing therapy herself. That personal perspective informs her practice.

What credential and location details are provided?

Selena is listed with BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with this counsellor?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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