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Scott Kilousky

Scott Kilousky

LMFT

Therapist · Hawaii · 4+ years of experience

Therapist focused on understanding and change

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  • Client-centered approach
  • Practical steps
  • Meaning and values

About Scott

Scott Kilousky is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on helping people work through strong emotions like anger, grief, and anxiety. He creates a calm place for someone to talk about what brought them in. Scott aims to help clients gain more acceptance and clearer understanding of their experiences so they can make different choices going forward.

Scott uses a gentle, non-directive style that centers the person's own goals. He listens closely and collaborates with each client rather than giving one-size-fits-all advice. Sessions often look like reflective conversations that help people notice patterns and try small changes.

His approach draws on Client-Centered Therapy, which emphasizes the person's perspective, and Existential Therapy, which explores meaning and life choices. He also brings Solution-Focused Therapy techniques that encourage practical steps and experiments between sessions to address immediate problems.

Scott has four years of clinical experience and holds the LMFT credential, licensed in Hawaii. He works in English and does not take international clients. Cost varies by location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

To begin, users select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability. That process matches practical needs with Scott's collaborative style so clients can begin with clear next steps.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

Hawaii

Languages

English

How these approaches guide online work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on the person's own perspective. The therapist listens closely, reflects what is said, and follows the client's lead to help them feel understood. This is useful for people who want a space to be heard and to make sense of their feelings.

Existential Therapy looks at meaning, choices, and personal responsibility. It helps when someone is facing big life questions, grief, or changes and wants to examine values and direction. Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on practical steps and small experiments to create change quickly, which can be helpful for problems like anger, stress, or communication issues.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods to use based on their goals and preferences. That means plans can change as progress is made and new needs appear.

Session logistics should be confirmed before booking, as the original profile does not list specific formats. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, cut down travel time, and allow brief check-ins when a full visit isn't needed. Discussing weekdays, evenings, or shorter sessions can help match therapy to daily routines.

At a glance

Listed location
Hawaii
Experience
4+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Hawaii)
LMFT · No. MFT-671
NPI
1578167565

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Scott help with?

He works with a range of concerns including anger, addiction, trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, stress, and self-esteem challenges.

What is his therapeutic style like?

Sessions are collaborative and non-directive, focusing on listening, reflection, and practical steps. He blends person-centered listening with solution-focused ideas to try small changes between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

Scott has four years of clinical experience working with people on emotional and behavioral concerns.

What credentials and region are associated with this therapist?

He holds the LMFT credential and is licensed in Hawaii.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options when booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start therapy with Scott?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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