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Rell Spickerman

Rell Spickerman

LMSW

Therapist · Michigan · 40+ years of experience

Practical, steady counseling with real-world tools

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  • Down-to-earth guidance
  • Focus on anger issues
  • 40 years experience

About Rell

Rell Spickerman is a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) with four decades of experience in counseling and pastoral care. He combines years of parish ministry with long-term work in mental health to help people facing tough life moments. Many clients come for help with anger, grief, relationship stress, or career transitions. Rell aims to be a practical guide, not a distant expert, and listens without judgment.

He has provided bereavement support through hospice chaplain work and has supported people impacted by divorce and parenting disputes. That background informs a calm, problem-focused style that values clear next steps. He uses cognitive-behavioral methods alongside client-centered and narrative techniques to help people name patterns and try new responses.

Rell also brings experience with anger management and with issues important to LGBT people, influenced in part by personal family connections. He blends straightforward conversation, gentle humor, and steady encouragement to reduce resistance to change. Sessions emphasize realistic goals and practical coping skills.

He describes his role as a guide by the side, helping clients weigh options and take manageable risks toward better days. His work includes career planning and life-work balance conversations as well as support for stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, and self-esteem struggles.

Rell practices in Michigan and works in English. People who prefer a respectful, down-to-earth counselor who focuses on workable solutions may find his approach matches their needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBTRelationship issuesGriefCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCancerCommitment issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addiction

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Narrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

40+ years

Credentials

Michigan

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they fit online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, and then choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and unconditional positive regard so people can explore their concerns at their own pace. That approach supports work on self-esteem, grief, and relationship strain. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns, which often helps with anger, anxiety, and depression.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences, try methods that fit the concern, and adjust as progress and feedback indicate. Clients help shape what happens in sessions so the work stays relevant to their life.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit counseling into a busy week, shorten commute time, and allow for flexible scheduling. It can also help sustain momentum between major life events and make follow-up or brief check-ins simpler. Ask about available session formats when you start the matching process so you can choose what fits your routine.

At a glance

Listed location
Michigan
Experience
40+ years
Credentials
LMSW
Languages
English
License (Michigan)
LMSW · No. 6801013241
NPI
1760116149

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Rell commonly help with?

He supports people with anger, grief, relationship strain, career change, depression, anxiety, stress, addictions, and self-esteem concerns among other issues.

What is his general therapy style?

He blends practical problem-solving with empathic listening, using clear steps and gentle humor to reduce resistance and encourage change.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He brings 40 years of combined experience from counseling and parish ministry, including hospice bereavement support and work in dispute management.

What are his professional credentials and location?

He is a Licensed Master Social Worker, MI LMSW, and practices in Michigan.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with him?

He is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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