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Raymond Hommes

Raymond Hommes

LMFT

Therapist · California · 28+ years of experience

Experienced therapist focused on practical change

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  • Relationship focus
  • Anger support
  • Career and life transitions

About Raymond

Raymond Hommes is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 28 years of experience. He helps people who are dealing with relationship strain, anger, career setbacks, and major life changes. He emphasizes recognizing a person's strengths and supporting them as they take the first steps toward change.

He listens first to understand each person’s story and what matters most to them. Raymond focuses on practical conversation and collaboration to build a plan that fits the client’s goals. He aims to make sessions straightforward and workable so people can try new ways of responding to stress and conflict.

His work spans many cultural settings, including time spent in Asia and Africa and with diverse subcultures in the United States. That background informs how he approaches concerns like multicultural stress, prejudice and discrimination, and midlife transitions. It also shapes his awareness of how identity and culture affect relationships and emotions.

Raymond often addresses issues tied to control struggles, forgiveness, guilt and shame, isolation, and men’s concerns. He also has experience with mood disorders, panic attacks, and work-related pressures. Clients can expect a therapist who emphasizes listening, practical steps, and teamwork to reach clearer goals.

He supports people dealing with sexual assault and abuse aftereffects and helps those working on self-love and communication problems. Raymond invites prospective clients to consider what they want to change and to begin by taking a small step toward that goal.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Communication problemsControl issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexual assault and abuse

Experience

28+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How Raymond applies evidence-based techniques online

Raymond uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques focused on practical change and clearer relationships. One commonly used approach is problem-focused conversation that helps people identify triggers, practice different responses, and test new behaviors in day-to-day life. This work often helps with anger, control issues, and communication problems. Another helpful approach emphasizes cultural awareness and context, drawing on his experience across Asia, Africa, and diverse U.S. subcultures to better understand how identity and culture shape feelings and relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, values, and comfort level. Sessions are structured so the therapist and client can try strategies and adjust them based on what actually helps in real life.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make therapy easier to fit into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It can also let people engage from different locations and maintain continuity when schedules or circumstances change.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
28+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 33621
NPI
1770793887

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with relationship strain, anger, career difficulties, and coping with life changes. Additional areas include communication problems, control issues, guilt and shame, and isolation.

What is his general approach in sessions?

He starts by listening and then collaborates with the client to build a plan. Sessions focus on practical conversation and steps that fit each person’s goals.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 28 years of professional work experience, including practice across different cultural settings in Asia, Africa, and the United States.

What credentials and location information are provided?

He is an LMFT licensed in California. His practice background includes work in multiple countries and diverse U.S. subcultures.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before scheduling.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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