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Paul Dokey

Paul Dokey

LCSW

Therapist · Montana · 20+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for intense emotions

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  • Mindfulness skills
  • CBT strategies
  • Twenty years experience

About Paul

Paul Dokey is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who focuses on helping people manage strong emotions and stressful situations. He creates a calm, present-focused space where clients can say what they need to say and start making changes. Paul draws on two decades of practice to guide conversations toward practical steps that feel doable day to day.

He uses cognitive behavioral ideas to spot unhelpful thinking patterns and replace them with more useful options. He also teaches mindfulness skills so people can notice difficult feelings without getting swept away. These tools are aimed at easing anxiety, anger, depression, and the ripple effects of trauma and grief.

Paul trained with a Bachelor of Arts in Cultural Anthropology and built a clinical career in Montana. His work has covered a wide range of concerns from addictions and ADHD to intimacy and parenting strains. Over twenty years he has kept his focus on straightforward psychotherapy and helping people find better ways to cope.

Sessions are intended to be collaborative and practical. Paul listens first, then offers techniques you can try between meetings. Many clients move from managing symptoms to handling everyday situations with more confidence and less reactivity.

People who want clear steps and a calm coaching style often find his approach useful. If you want a therapist who blends thought-based strategies with mindfulness and steady support, he may be a good match.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Montana

Languages

English

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice painful thoughts and feelings while moving toward what matters to them. It often helps with anxiety, depression, anger, and coping with life changes by teaching values-based action. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thinking patterns and behaviors, then tries practical experiments to shift them; it is commonly used for anxiety, depression, and unhelpful habits.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods match their goals and preferences. That might mean combining ACT skills with CBT exercises and moments of client-centered listening to suit the individual's needs.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. They can also let people work on mindfulness and thought exercises from wherever they are comfortable, while still meeting regularly with a licensed professional to track progress and adjust the plan.

At a glance

Listed location
Montana
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Montana)
LCSW · No. BBH-LCSW-LIC-754
NPI
1003975301

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Paul help people with?

Paul works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, intimacy issues, parenting, ADHD, and relationship challenges.

What is his approach to therapy like?

He blends cognitive behavioral techniques with mindfulness and client-centered conversation. The aim is to notice patterns, try new responses, and build skills that fit daily life.

How much clinical experience does he have?

Paul brings 20 years of clinical experience working with people facing mood, trauma, and relationship concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker - LCSW - based in Montana.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time based on therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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