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Paul Dent

Paul Dent

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 12+ years of experience

Calm, practical counselling for everyday struggles

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  • Strengths focused
  • Goal oriented
  • Direct and steady

About Paul

Paul Dent is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with a BACP credential and 12 years of experience. He supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma, relationship and intimacy concerns, and anger. He emphasises strengths and sees the person as the expert in their own story. Taking a first step can feel hard, and he aims to make that step feel more manageable.

In sessions he listens first and asks questions to understand what matters to the client. He helps people set clear, practical goals and reviews progress regularly so clients can see change. Conversations are grounded and straightforward, focusing on what a person wants to do differently in daily life.

His approach draws on client-centred work that prioritises the client’s perspective, and on cognitive behavioural ideas that look at thinking patterns and unhelpful habits. He also uses motivational interviewing to support change and the Gottman Method for relationship-focused work when relevant. Paul tailors methods to each person rather than using a fixed programme.

Clients can expect a calm, collaborative atmosphere where goals are practical and steps are small. He offers support with a wide range of issues including grief, sleep problems, parenting strain, self-esteem, and career stress. International clients may be able to arrange sessions in English.

Paul encourages people to be active in the process, bringing real-life examples to talk through. He works with each client to agree aims and to check that sessions are helping in ways that matter to them.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How approaches like client-centred work online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening to the person and following their lead, helping them name what matters and decide the next steps. It is useful for people who need time to make sense of feelings and to build confidence in their choices.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thought and behaviour and supports practical changes. It is often used for anxiety, stress and low mood by breaking problems into manageable steps and testing out different ways of thinking.

Motivational Interviewing helps people find their own reasons to change and to move through ambivalence. It can be helpful when someone is unsure about change or facing addictive behaviours.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss different methods and decide together which suit the client’s needs, goals and preferences. That choice is collaborative and can change over time as progress is reviewed.

If you are considering online therapy, check the session options before booking as the biography does not list formats. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow quieter or shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. Therapists and registered or accredited professionals often work with clients remotely to keep continuity of care and to make regular sessions more practical.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
12+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 110984

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paul work with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, anger and related concerns such as sleep problems, grief and self-esteem.

How would he describe his therapeutic style?

Sessions are practical and collaborative, with an emphasis on listening, joint goal-setting and regular review so people see what is changing.

What is his professional background?

He has 12 years of experience working in the UK helping people with a wide range of emotional and relational difficulties.

What credentials and location are listed?

He holds BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify particular formats.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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