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Dr. Norja Cunningham

Dr. Norja Cunningham

LMFT

Therapist · Connecticut · 21+ years of experience

Practical, adaptable therapy for strong emotions

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  • Action-focused
  • Values-guided
  • 21 years experience

About Norja

Dr. Norja Cunningham helps people who are struggling with strong emotions and relationship strain. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 21 years of experience and works to make therapy practical and focused. Her approach aims to help clients notice patterns and make real changes in daily life.

Her style adapts to what a person needs in the moment. She may take on the role of a therapist, coach, or teacher while keeping clear boundaries so work stays on track. Sessions often move from insight to action so clients interrupt old habits and try new responses.

Clinically, she draws from cognitive behavioral strategies and dialectical behavior techniques. She also uses acceptance and commitment ideas and client-centered principles to help people identify values and manage difficult feelings. This mix supports work on anger, anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems.

Dr. Cunningham attends to cultural context and different lived experiences when she meets with people. She includes faith perspectives when that matters to a client. Her goal is steady progress rather than quick fixes, and she emphasizes skills that can be used between sessions.

Outside of her clinical work she enjoys singing, creative writing, sports, weight training, and travel. These interests inform a down-to-earth style that many find accessible and relatable.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Credentials

Connecticut

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify what matters to them and take small committed steps toward those values while learning to sit with hard feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like anger and anxiety. Client-centered therapy centers the person in the room, emphasizing empathy and collaboration to help people feel heard and make their own choices about change.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then try strategies together to see what fits. That collaborative process helps tailor techniques so sessions match a client's needs over time.

Confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into busy days, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules demand them. Many people find that working online lets them practice skills in the settings where they live and work, which can speed up applying new behaviors between meetings.

At a glance

Listed location
Connecticut
Experience
21+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Connecticut)
LMFT · No. 27.001594
NPI
1184948473

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with concerns such as anger, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, parenting strain, ADHD, and stress related to work and life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style shifts to meet each person's needs; she may act like a therapist, coach, or teacher while keeping sessions focused on practical change and skill building.

What is her clinical background?

She brings 21 years of clinical experience and integrates methods like cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, acceptance and commitment ideas, and client-centered work into treatment.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a Connecticut licensed marriage and family therapist listed as LMFT and practices from Connecticut.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How is payment handled and what are costs?

Cost varies with location and availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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