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Neil Steinert

Neil Steinert

LCSW

Therapist · New Jersey · 13+ years of experience

Practical therapy for anger and life stressors

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  • Strengths focused
  • Practical tools
  • Calm, direct approach

About Neil

Neil Steinert is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 13 years of clinical experience. He helps people facing stress, anxiety, anger, depression, relationship struggles, and questions around identity and intimacy. People often contact him when life changes, grief, trauma, parenting strain, or career questions feel overwhelming.

He uses straightforward conversations and practical tools. Sessions focus on strengths and workable steps rather than long lectures. Neil blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-Based ideas, mindfulness practices, and solution-focused techniques to help people find clearer choices and calmer reactions.

In the room he listens for patterns that keep problems stuck. Then he helps clients try small changes and notice what shifts. Motivational Interviewing strategies are part of how he supports people who want to change habits or take on new goals.

Neil has a background living in New Jersey since his university years after growing up in Utah. He has personal experience with divorce and family life, and he brings that real-world perspective to conversations about relationships, blended families, and parenting pressures.

Outside work he is active in outdoor pursuits such as rock climbing, backpacking, and yoga. He also follows vegetarian cooking and explores local restaurants. That mix of practical therapy and everyday interests shapes an approachable style that aims to help people manage anger, build confidence, and handle life transitions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

New Jersey

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and what online work can look like

Neil integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Attachment-Based ideas in a down-to-earth way. CBT helps by identifying unhelpful thought patterns and testing small behavior changes to shift mood and reactions. Attachment-based work looks at how past relationships shape present reactions and helps people try new ways of connecting and responding.

He also uses Mindfulness Therapy to teach simple attention and breathing practices that reduce reactivity. These approaches are useful for anger, anxiety, relationship stress, and life transitions. Finding the right mix of methods is part of the process, and the therapist works collaboratively to match techniques to a person's goals, needs, and preferences.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy week and making it easier to meet without long travel. Some people find shorter check-ins work well when schedules are tight, and others prefer full sessions that replace an office visit. The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking to know which formats are offered. The therapist aims to help people apply tools in daily life and to make therapy fit into regular routines.

At a glance

Listed location
New Jersey
Experience
13+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (New Jersey)
LCSW · No. 44SC05363300
NPI
1720223118

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Neil focus on?

He works with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, relationship and intimacy questions, parenting strain, trauma and grief, LGBT issues, career concerns, ADHD, and related challenges.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He takes a practical, conversational approach that highlights strengths and small, testable changes. Sessions mix listening with concrete strategies and goal-focused steps.

What is his clinical experience?

He has 13 years of experience providing therapy and has worked with a wide range of concerns including trauma, relationship issues, and habit change.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in New Jersey and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported and can international clients work together?

Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking to ensure they meet your needs.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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