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Michelle Rutter

Michelle Rutter

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 6+ years of experience

Calm, person-centred counselling for change

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  • Compassionate listener
  • Practical strategies
  • Individualised care

About Michelle

Michelle Rutter is a person-centred counsellor based in the United Kingdom. She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, anger, addictions, depression and relationship concerns. Her work also covers trauma, grief, parenting strains and changes in life circumstances, and she works with people facing neurodivergent needs such as ADHD.

Michelle keeps sessions straightforward and compassionate. She encourages honest conversation and aims to make people feel heard without judgement. Her practice treats each person as an individual and adapts to their needs rather than using one fixed method.

Her background blends person-centred work with cognitive behavioural techniques and psychodynamic ideas. That mix lets her use practical tools for managing thoughts and feelings alongside space to understand personal patterns. Therapy plans are tailored to what each person wants to achieve.

Michelle also draws on elements of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy when they suit a client's goals. These approaches can help with emotional regulation, coping skills and learning how to live with difficult thoughts and feelings.

She works with people who are sorting through loss, addiction, eating and sleeping difficulties, intimacy and self-esteem issues, career stresses, and long-term health challenges. Michelle aims to make the first step easier and to support people as they try out changes in day-to-day life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It focuses on values and small actions that build a more meaningful life. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions and uses simple exercises to shift unhelpful patterns. These methods can help with anxiety, mood problems, anger and coping with change.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and try different methods to see what helps. That collaboration means plans are shaped around what a person needs, not a single technique.

The biography does not specify which online formats are used, so please confirm the session options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also makes access simpler for international clients and for people managing long-term health conditions or caregiving duties.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
6+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 395654

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She supports a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, anger, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, grief and relationship concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is person-centred and non-judgemental, focusing on listening and understanding. She combines this with practical strategies from cognitive behavioural work.

What experience does she have?

She has six years of experience working with people on issues such as ADHD, OCD, trauma, grief and life transitions.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is listed with the BACP, which stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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