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Michael Harland

Michael Harland

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Depth focused counsellor for strong emotions

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  • Mindfulness informed
  • Feeling centred
  • UK based

About Michael

Michael Harland is a counsellor who helps people facing strong emotions and life difficulties. He works with common problems such as anger, anxiety, stress and low mood. He also supports those dealing with relationship strain, grief, addictions and issues around self‑esteem and identity.

He uses a depth‑focused way of working that pays attention to feelings as they arise. Michael believes talk is a tool to reach deeper emotions rather than an end in itself. That shapes how sessions feel: slower at times, and aimed at noticing what people feel beneath their thoughts.

Michael also draws on mindfulness techniques to help clients notice their present experience. Mindfulness is used to steady attention and reduce reactivity when emotions feel overwhelming. This can be useful alongside the deeper focus on feelings.

He advises that depth‑focused work is not suitable for everyone. People in active crisis, those who have had non‑drug-induced psychosis, or those recovering from very severe trauma may need different approaches. Michael suggests more stabilising, skills‑based work in such situations and can help people consider other options.

Michael holds BACP credentialing, and he practises from the United Kingdom. He has five years of experience working with a wide range of concerns and with diverse personal backgrounds. If someone wants to explore intense feelings and long‑standing emotional patterns, he offers a considered, feeling‑centred way of working.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online therapy

Depth‑focused work looks at feelings beneath thoughts and helps people become aware of long‑standing emotional patterns. In practice this often means gentle exploration of what comes up in the moment and naming emotional experience to reduce its intensity.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention skills. It helps people notice bodily sensations, breathing and moment‑to‑moment experience so they can respond rather than react. This can be particularly useful for anger, stress, sleep problems and anxiety.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Michael will talk with clients about goals and preferences and suggest ways of working that suit those aims. He sees the choice of methods as a collaborative decision rather than a fixed prescription.

If you are considering online sessions, check the available formats before booking since the biography does not list specific options. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow for shorter check‑ins when needed. It can also allow people to practise mindfulness between sessions and bring examples from everyday life into therapy more readily.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
5+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 394011

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Michael help with?

He supports people with anger, anxiety, stress, depression and self‑esteem difficulties, among many other concerns such as grief, addictions, relationship strain and career stress.

What is his therapeutic style like?

Michael offers depth‑focused work that prioritises feeling over thought, alongside mindfulness tools to help clients notice and regulate strong emotions.

How much experience does he have?

He has five years of clinical experience working with a range of emotional and interpersonal difficulties.

What professional credential does he hold and where is he based?

Michael holds BACP credentialing and practices from the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are used.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

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Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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