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Prof. Michael Feldler

Prof. Michael Feldler

LMHC

Therapist · New York · 38+ years of experience

Calm, direct therapy for real-life struggles

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  • Focus on practical skills
  • Collaborative goal setting
  • Listening first

About Michael

Prof. Michael Feldler is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with 38 years of experience. He helps people facing anger, stress, anxiety, addiction, loss, and other hard problems. He listens first and asks simple questions to understand what matters to each person. That plain approach helps people feel heard and begin to make changes. He uses practical talk therapy methods drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy to build coping skills. He also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-based ideas to help people notice what matters and rebuild important connections. Sessions focus on real-life steps clients can try between meetings. Michael has taught and supervised students in a college mental health training clinic for more than a decade. That experience shapes how he explains things and how he helps people practice new habits. He has worked across many settings with adults and children over his career. In sessions he pays attention to both what brought someone in and the deeper patterns that keep problems going. He emphasizes motivation, clear goals, and steady progress. Conversations are held in an encouraging tone and geared to what the client wants to achieve. People often come for help with relationships, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, sleep and eating concerns, parenting strain, ADHD, and anger management. Michael supports exploration of those issues while helping clients develop concrete skills to feel and act differently.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

38+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How therapy approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and choose values-based actions. It can be useful for anger, anxiety, and major life changes by focusing attention on what matters rather than trying to fight thoughts. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions interact and teaches step-by-step skills to change unhelpful patterns. It often helps with anxiety, depression, sleep, and addictive behaviors. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) emphasizes emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and better communication skills, which can be helpful for intense anger, relationship problems, and coping under stress.

The therapist treats finding the right approach as a collaborative process. He will talk with clients about their goals and try out methods that fit those goals. Together they decide which strategies to use and adjust them as progress is seen.

Practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions into a busy schedule and keeping momentum between meetings. Because this profile does not list specific online formats, confirm the available session options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to schedule a shorter check-in, avoid travel time, or choose a meeting style that is less demanding on bandwidth or attention. Licensed professionals can guide you on which approach and format will best match your needs.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
38+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (New York)
LMHC · No. 001876
NPI
1891469276

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?

Common areas include anger, stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, sleep and eating concerns, parenting strain, ADHD, and career stress.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

The approach is straightforward and skills-focused. He listens closely, sets clear goals, and practices coping strategies drawn from cognitive and behavioral methods.

What is his clinical background and experience?

He holds 38 years of clinical experience and has spent over a decade teaching and supervising in a college-based mental health training clinic.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with a New York LMHC credential and practices out of New York.

Does he offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English, and he is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start a first appointment?

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Before you start

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