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Mary Stein

Mary Stein

LMFT

Therapist · California · 27+ years of experience

Experienced LMFT helping with anger and life changes

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  • Warm collaborative care
  • Practical coping skills
  • Focus on relationships

About Mary

Mary Stein is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. She has practiced for 27 years and helps people facing stress, anxiety, anger, depression, grief, trauma, addictions, relationship strain, and parenting concerns. Her approach is warm and interactive. Sessions focus on understanding what brought someone to therapy and on practical steps to improve daily life. She offers respectful, kind feedback and aims to help people build healthier patterns and clearer choices. Mary often uses Client-Centered Therapy to create a collaborative, accepting relationship that centers on each person’s goals and strengths. She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and learn new coping skills. Existential ideas help people consider meaning, choice, and purpose when life feels confusing or stuck. Her background includes private practice work and roles as a clinical supervisor in adolescent residential programs and at a domestic violence agency. That mix informs a practical, experienced style that values steady progress over time. Mary encourages small steps that add up to larger change. She frames therapy as a team effort and focuses on helping people increase self-awareness, solve problems, and improve relationships. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

27+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they can work online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on building a respectful, collaborative relationship where the therapist listens without judgment and follows the client’s goals; this helps when someone needs a supportive space to sort through feelings and choices. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns; it is useful for anxiety, depression, anger, and coping with life changes. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) blends skill-building in emotion regulation and distress tolerance with acceptance strategies, and can help people manage intense emotions and improve relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their needs, goals, and preferences and will use a collaborative process to choose methods that fit. That means methods may be adjusted over time as goals change and progress is tracked.

Session formats are not listed here, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when schedules require it. Some formats also make it simpler to continue care during life transitions or when someone needs more flexible timing. Licensed professionals can adapt the approaches above to an online setting to focus on skill practice, problem solving, and exploring meaning without requiring a particular in-person arrangement.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
27+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 35416
NPI
1982804514

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, grief, trauma and addictions, plus relationship and parenting challenges.

How would you describe her therapy style?

The style is warm, accepting and interactive, with practical steps and respectful feedback to help clients move forward.

What is her clinical background?

She has 27 years of experience, including private practice and roles as a clinical supervisor in adolescent residential programs and a domestic violence agency.

What credentials and region apply to this therapist?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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