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Mary Koch

Mary Koch

LMHC

Therapist · Iowa · 8+ years of experience

Experienced LMHC who listens and reframes

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  • Warm and direct
  • Practical tools
  • Focus on strengths

About Mary

Mary Koch is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with eight years of clinical experience. She creates an inviting, nonjudgmental space where people can talk about what matters to them. Her manner is warm and straightforward, and she aims to help clients notice their own strengths and perspectives.

Her approach mixes practical tools with listening. She uses methods such as cognitive behavioral techniques and acceptance strategies to help people reframe thoughts and choose actions that match their values. Sessions include gentle reflection, helping clients hear their own thinking in new ways, and small exercises when useful.

Mary has worked in many settings, including outpatient substance and alcohol services for people with dual diagnosis, school-based work with children through college age, and correctional facilities. That background informs her work with depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, bipolar concerns, sleep problems, self-esteem, LGBT identity questions, and anger. She also supports people coping with life changes and a wide range of relationship and attachment concerns.

In sessions she offers practical reframing, validation, and hands-on strategies to manage emotions and behavior. She emphasizes that change comes from the client and stays focused on what the person can do day to day. Mary notes small shifts and steps that help build momentum.

To begin, she asks people to use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire. Scheduling is arranged according to her posted availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

Iowa, Florida

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without being controlled by them. It focuses on choosing actions that match personal values and is useful for anxiety, mood, and living through life changes.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thought and behavior and introduces practical experiments to change them. It can help with worry, sleep problems, low mood, and managing strong emotions like anger.

Attachment-Based Therapy brings attention to how early relationships shape current patterns. It is often helpful for attachment issues, abandonment concerns, relationship communication problems, and people wanting clearer emotional connections.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, symptoms, and preferences and suggest methods to try. Clients and therapist then adjust the plan together based on what helps.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as those details are provided at scheduling. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter or more frequent check-ins when needed. It also lets people use quieter times of day, avoid video when they prefer, or choose options that better fit their routines.

At a glance

Listed location
Iowa
Experience
8+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (Iowa)
LMHC · No. 088801
License (Florida)
LMHC · No. MH21935
NPI
1336651363

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Mary address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, sleep problems, self-esteem, anger, bipolar concerns, and coping with life changes, among other issues.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is warm, nonjudging, and conversational. She uses reframing and simple exercises so clients can hear and try new ways of thinking and acting.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has eight years of experience across outpatient substance and alcohol services, schools, and correctional settings, including work with dual diagnosis and identity questions.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with credentials in Florida and Iowa and operates from Iowa.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the country work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are costs and billing handled?

Session costs vary with location and therapist availability, and therapy uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's posted availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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