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Mary Schoen

Mary Schoen

LICSW

Therapist · Minnesota · 17+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical help for anger and stress

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  • Nonjudgmental care
  • Collaborative approach
  • Practical strategies

About Mary

Mary Schoen, LICSW, offers calm, practical support for people facing anger and related struggles. She meets people where they are and focuses on small, steady steps to reduce overwhelm and improve everyday functioning. Conversations are straightforward and nonjudgmental, aimed at clearing roadblocks that keep someone from living the life they want.

Mary uses a collaborative approach that follows each person's needs and goals. She draws on methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice patterns, test new behaviors, and act in line with what matters to them. Attachment-based ideas and client-centered care shape how she builds trust and safety during sessions.

She brings 17 years as a licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker in Minnesota to her work. That experience includes helping with anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, grief, self-esteem, relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting stress, caregiving strain, and living with mood conditions like bipolar disorder.

Mary has worked in homes, schools, and agencies and has begun using virtual sessions when it fits. Conversations focus on practical changes - trying different strategies, adjusting expectations, and building everyday routines that reduce anger and stress. She helps people sort priorities and take manageable steps forward.

If someone prefers a frank, accepting therapist who values collaboration and steady progress, Mary can be a good match. To get started, readers should follow the site process to see if scheduling lines up with their needs.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disaster

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Credentials

Minnesota

Languages

English

How her approaches guide online work

Mary often uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without being controlled by them, then choose actions that match their values. This approach can help with anger, anxiety, and life changes by shifting focus toward meaningful behavior rather than getting stuck in unhelpful thinking.

She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors in everyday life. CBT tools can be useful for managing stress, reducing reactivity, and improving sleep and mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Mary will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and try strategies that fit their situation. Sessions are collaborative, with adjustments made based on what helps most over time.

Practical benefits of online therapy include easier fitting of sessions into a busy week and reducing travel time so check-ins can happen during a shorter break. Virtual work has been added to Mary’s practice, but readers should confirm the current session options before booking. The focus remains the same online: practicing skills, testing small changes between sessions, and tracking what improves day to day.

At a glance

Listed location
Minnesota
Experience
17+ years
Credentials
LICSW
Languages
English
License (Minnesota)
LICSW · No. 13969
NPI
1003414376

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary commonly help with?

She helps with anger and related concerns such as stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, grief, depression, self-esteem, relationship and intimacy issues, sleep problems, parenting strain, and ADHD.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is straightforward and nonjudgmental. She follows what each person needs and uses practical strategies chosen together.

What is her clinical background?

Mary has 17 years of experience as a licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker and has worked in homes, schools, and clinical agencies.

Where is she licensed and based?

She holds a Minnesota LICSW and practices in Minnesota.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Mary?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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