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Mary Blankenburg

Mary Blankenburg

LISW

Therapist · Iowa · 35+ years of experience

Calm guidance for hard emotions

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  • Relationship focused
  • Body-aware methods
  • Practical skill building

About Mary

Mary Blankenburg is a licensed independent social worker (LISW) with 35 years of clinical experience. She focuses on building a strong therapeutic relationship and helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, and other life challenges. Mary aims to make therapy understandable and practical for everyday life.

She has worked in community mental health, adolescent services, and private practice. That background gives her a wide view of how problems show up across different life stages. Mary blends talking therapy with attention to the body, drawing on movement and simple exercises when they feel useful.

Her approach centers on helping people notice how their bodies and minds respond to stress and trauma. She uses methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy in ways that fit each person. Mary helps clients learn skills to calm intense reactions and to make clearer choices about what matters to them.

Many clients work on issues like grief, addictions, sleep problems, relationship and intimacy concerns, self-esteem, and career stress. She also supports people managing ADHD, bipolar challenges, chronic illness, and co-occurring issues. Sessions emphasize practical coping skills, clearer communication, and small, steady changes.

Mary aims to create a kind, steady space where people can face hard memories and build new patterns. She helps clients set realistic goals, practice new ways of responding, and track progress over time.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityForgivenessGuilt and shameLife purposePanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

35+ years

Credentials

Iowa

Languages

English

How therapy approaches guide online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying values and learning to take meaningful action even when difficult thoughts and feelings appear. It can help with anxiety, depression, anger, and life transitions by teaching practical tools for staying engaged with what matters.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions interact. It breaks problems into manageable parts and teaches skills to change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, useful for panic, depression, sleep problems, and stress.

Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationships shape current patterns in close relationships. It helps people understand attachment responses and practice new ways of relating when intimacy or trust is difficult.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That choice can change over time as needs shift and progress is made.

If you plan to try online therapy, confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, shorten travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when that suits a schedule. Talk with the therapist about how to shape sessions to match your routine and needs.

At a glance

Listed location
Iowa
Experience
35+ years
Credentials
LISW
Languages
English
License (Iowa)
LISW · No. 01283
NPI
1104840347

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary work with?

She helps people managing stress, anxiety, depression, anger, grief, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, sleep problems, and related challenges listed in her profile.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and practical, combining talk therapy with attention to how the body responds. Sessions focus on learning skills and making small, steady changes.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Mary has 35 years of clinical experience across community mental health, adolescent services, and private practice.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is an LISW - Licensed Independent Social Worker - practicing in Iowa.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin the process?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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