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Margaret Thomas- Lapsley

Margaret Thomas- Lapsley

LMHC

Therapist · Florida · 16+ years of experience

Change-focused therapist for strong emotions

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  • Anger and emotional regulation
  • Trauma-informed care
  • Practical daily skills

About Margaret

Margaret Thomas- Lapsley is a licensed mental health counselor who helps adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. She works with people going through relationship strain, grief, major life changes, or recovery from addiction. Her focus includes trauma and abuse, and she supports those wanting clearer boundaries and better emotional regulation.

She uses practical skills in sessions so people can cope day to day. Margaret draws on approaches like cognitive behavioral methods and mindfulness to teach concrete tools for managing strong emotions. She also uses attachment-informed and emotionally focused ideas to improve how people relate to others.

Her work aims to rebuild self-trust and reduce reactive patterns that lead to shame, guilt, or ongoing conflict. Sessions are collaborative: the client’s goals guide what skills and steps are used. Expect a calm, present stance from the therapist and a focus on what helps in everyday life.

Margaret brings 16 years of experience as a Florida LMHC. That background informs a trauma-aware, relational style that balances understanding with practical skill-building. She helps people find clearer direction and healthier ways to live after hard experiences.

People often come for help with anger, communication problems, first responder issues, or struggles tied to intimacy and commitment. The work usually centers on learning emotional regulation, setting boundaries, and making incremental changes that fit each person’s life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Body imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Credentials

Florida

Languages

English

Approach choices for online work and how they help

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts without getting stuck and choose actions that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and for reducing reactive responses to strong emotions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical steps to change unhelpful patterns and manage symptoms like anger or worry.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals and preferences and will suggest methods that fit the presenting concerns. This is a collaborative decision and can shift as work progresses.

Confirm the current online session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow consistent check-ins during transitions, and reduce time spent traveling. They can also allow shorter or focused check-ins when schedules are tight or when someone prefers not to be on camera for part of a session.

At a glance

Listed location
Florida
Experience
16+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (Florida)
LMHC · No. MH11733
NPI
1174829097

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can be addressed in sessions?

She works with adults on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, anger, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship strain, and substance use concerns among others.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

The approach is trauma-aware, relational, and skills based, blending practical exercises with attention to how relationships and attachment affect feelings and behavior.

What is her clinical background?

Margaret has 16 years of experience working with adults and draws on several therapy approaches to tailor work to each person’s needs.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is a Florida LMHC and practices in Florida.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist’s availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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