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Dr. Lance Smith

Dr. Lance Smith

LMFT

Therapist · California · 25+ years of experience

Experienced LMFT focusing on practical change

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  • 25 years experience
  • Relationship support
  • Practical coping skills

About Lance

Dr. Lance Smith helps people dealing with stress, anger, relationship strain, anxiety, and depression. He is a licensed marital and family therapist with 25 years of work in California and elsewhere. He aims to make it easier to talk about hard things and to find practical ways forward.

He builds a calm, respectful space for conversations. He listens first and asks questions to understand how problems show up in daily life. Sessions focus on what matters to the person sitting in the room, not on labels.

Dr. Smith uses a mix of approaches based on each person's goals. You might work on changing unhelpful thoughts, improving communication, or noticing patterns from past relationships that still affect current life. He also uses short-term problem solving when a quick plan is needed.

When relationships are struggling he draws on methods that strengthen connection and rebuild trust. For people coping with trauma or grief he combines attention to emotion with steps to manage reactions day to day. He often helps people set clear, achievable goals and track progress between meetings.

He holds a California licensed marital and family therapist credential, LMFT. To begin, clients choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule appointments according to his availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Utah, California

Languages

English

How his approaches fit with online therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns. It helps people notice repeated relationship habits and try new ways of relating that build more safety and connection. Client-Centered Therapy centers on the person's own experience. The therapist listens without judging and follows the client's pace so people can clarify what matters and make choices that fit their life.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Dr. Smith discusses options with each person and chooses methods together based on goals, preferences, and how problems show up. That collaborative process helps tailor sessions to what the client needs most, whether that is emotion-focused work, skills practice, or short-term problem solving.

Session logistics and formats are not listed here, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow for quicker check-ins between longer appointments. Different approaches translate well to remote work - for example, discussion-based methods and skill practice can be handled in a video or phone appointment, while goal-focused planning helps keep progress measurable across sessions.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
25+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Oklahoma)
LMFT · No. 10117
License (Utah)
LMFT · No. 13638245-3902
License (California)
LMFT · No. 158469
NPI
1316190655

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anger, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, addictions, trauma and grief among other issues.

How would you describe his therapy style?

He listens carefully and focuses on practical steps. Sessions mix conversation, skill practice, and goal setting tailored to each person.

What is his professional background?

He has 25 years of clinical experience working with a range of concerns and relationship issues.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is an LMFT with licensure in California. His profile lists California as the location.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he accept clients outside the United States?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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