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Kirsten Probst-Santha

Kirsten Probst-Santha

LCSW

Therapist · North Carolina · 4+ years of experience

Compassionate therapist focused on emotional regulation

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  • Anger and emotion skills
  • Practical coping strategies
  • Trauma-informed care

About Kirsten

Kirsten Probst-Santha is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people manage strong emotions and big life changes. She focuses on issues like anger, anxiety, depression, and relationship strain. Kirsten uses a calm, down-to-earth style to help people feel heard and start making small changes that matter.

With four years of practice, Kirsten draws on approaches that center the client’s experience. She emphasizes emotional regulation and practical coping skills people can use right away. The first sessions often focus on what matters most to the client and on setting short-term goals.

Her background includes work in school, residential, and community-based settings. That experience informs how she supports someone who is juggling family stress, caregiving demands, or shifts in work and life roles. She frames therapy as a step toward steadier daily functioning rather than a quick fix.

Kirsten describes her method as collaborative and trauma-informed. She listens for cultural context and personal history, then tailors strategies from evidence-based approaches. Sessions blend talking through issues with skill-building exercises and practical problem solving.

People looking for help with parenting stress, grief, ADHD-related concerns, or relationship conflicts will find an emphasis on stabilizing emotions and improving communication. Kirsten encourages people to take their time and move at a pace that feels manageable. If you want a therapist who values respect and clear goals, this approach may fit well.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

Illinois, North Carolina

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and following the person’s lead. In practice this means the therapist asks about what matters most and adjusts sessions to each person’s pace and values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on spotting patterns of thinking and behavior that keep problems going and practicing new ways of responding. It is useful for issues like anxiety, depression, and anger management.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will review goals and try methods that fit the client’s needs and preferences. Decisions about which techniques to use are made together and can shift as progress is made.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm available options before you book. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - for example, shorter check-ins can work between commitments, and some setups reduce travel time. Licensed professionals can also use focused skill-building exercises and homework between visits to help clients practice emotional regulation and coping in day-to-day situations.

At a glance

Listed location
North Carolina
Experience
4+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Illinois)
LCSW · No. 149.016911
License (North Carolina)
LCSW · No. C019766
NPI
1366306854

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this therapist help with?

She supports people with anger, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, grief, trauma and stress related to life changes.

What is her general therapy style?

Her style is collaborative and client-centered, focusing on listening first and then teaching emotional regulation and coping skills.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has four years of experience working in school, residential, and community settings before offering ongoing therapy.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She holds LCSW credentials and practices from North Carolina under the listed NC LCSW and IL LCSW details.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

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Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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