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Khalaja Dunlap

Khalaja Dunlap

LCSW

Therapist · North Carolina · 8+ years of experience

Calm-focused, practical therapy for strong emotions

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  • Anger and stress
  • Skills-based work
  • Mindfulness tools

About Khalaja

Khalaja Dunlap is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who helps people dealing with anger and related struggles. She works with adults who are navigating stress, anxiety, relationship strain, and life transitions. Her language is straightforward and practical, aimed at people who want clear ways to manage strong feelings and improve daily functioning.

She uses methods that focus on thoughts, emotions, and present-moment skills. Sessions often include learning concrete coping tools, practicing new ways to respond under stress, and setting realistic goals for change. Khalaja emphasizes skills that can be applied between sessions so progress carries into everyday life.

Khalaja has eight years of clinical experience and maintains licensure as an LCSW in North Carolina and Virginia. Her background includes work with issues such as ADHD, grief, addictions, intimacy concerns, parenting stress, and blended family challenges. She also addresses body image, codependency, impulsivity, and post-traumatic stress among other concerns.

Her approach blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and mindfulness practices. That mix aims to help people notice patterns, tolerate difficult feelings, and build better habits over time. Khalaja frames therapy as collaborative learning rather than quick fixes.

People who choose Khalaja can expect practical strategies, short-term skill building, and a focus on usable change. Those interested in starting are encouraged to follow the listed intake steps to match with her and schedule a first appointment.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementADHD

Additional focus areas

Blended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityLife purposePost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

North Carolina, Virginia

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anger, life changes, and anxiety by shifting focus from fighting feelings to acting toward goals.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Sessions teach ways to identify and test unhelpful thoughts and replace them with practical strategies to reduce reactivity and improve sleep or focus.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) provides concrete skills for managing intense emotions and improving interpersonal effectiveness. It offers distress tolerance and emotion-regulation tools that are helpful when anger or impulsivity becomes overwhelming.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work together with the client to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That collaborative process may involve trying different skills and adapting the plan over time.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week and to practice skills in everyday settings. Since the biography does not list specific session formats, confirm current options before booking. Many people find remote sessions reduce travel time, allow flexible scheduling, and help them check in more consistently while working on anger, stress, and relationship goals.

At a glance

Listed location
North Carolina
Experience
8+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (North Carolina)
LCSW · No. C013291
License (Virginia)
LCSW · No. 0904013170
NPI
1174014757

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Khalaja commonly address?

Khalaja works with problems like anger, stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, self-esteem, grief, addictions, intimacy concerns, sleeping difficulties, parenting stress, and ADHD.

What is her general therapy style?

She uses a practical, skills-focused style that blends evidence-informed methods. Sessions emphasize coping skills, behavior changes, and learning tools that can be used between visits.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has eight years of professional experience working in clinical settings with a range of emotional and behavioral concerns.

Which credentials and location apply?

Khalaja holds an LCSW and is licensed in North Carolina and Virginia; her listed location is North Carolina.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the therapist's biography does not specify which formats are used.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Khalaja?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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