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Katharine “Katy” Nicholson

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson

LMFT

Therapist · New York · 10+ years of experience

Relationship-focused therapist helping manage anger and stress

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  • LMFT in New York
  • 10 years experience
  • English sessions

About Katharine

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who focuses on helping people improve relationships and manage strong emotions like anger. She offers a calm, warm presence and listens for what is missing in conversations at home or work. Katy frames therapy around practical steps and clearer communication so people can feel heard and understood.

She has about ten years of clinical experience, and most of that time has been spent in outpatient community mental health settings in New York. That background means she is used to working with common life stresses such as parenting struggles, grief, anxiety, depression, and difficulties with intimacy and self-esteem. Katy also addresses issues like addiction, sleep and eating concerns, and ADHD-related challenges.

Her clinical approach draws on Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT). In sessions she blends practical skills work with attention to feelings and patterns in relationships. She often helps people develop communication tools and clearer boundaries.

Katy has experience supporting people through family conflict, abandonment or adoption-related concerns, blended family issues, and forgiveness work. She also helps those coping with career stress, compassion fatigue, and major life changes. She aims to meet people where they are and problem-solve together.

To begin, prospective clients use the site's Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability. Sessions are conducted in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Imago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How attachment and skills work together online

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationship patterns shape current bonds and reactions. In simple terms, it looks at how people seek closeness or push others away and helps them try different ways of relating that feel safer and more reliable.

Client-Centered Therapy centers the person's experience and priorities. The therapist listens closely, reflects what is said, and helps people find their own solutions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and teaches practical strategies to change them, which can help with anxiety, anger, and mood problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Katy will collaborate with each person to decide which methods make sense for their goals, whether that means focusing on emotions, building communication skills, or practicing new coping techniques. The plan can change as needs evolve.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current online options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Licensed professionals can still guide emotion-focused work and teach CBT and attachment-based skills effectively over distance, while adapting pacing and exercises to each person's situation.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
10+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (New York)
LMFT · No. 001066
NPI
1578845822

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with relationship and family concerns, parenting struggles, trauma and abuse, stress, anxiety, depression, anger, and related issues such as eating, sleeping, and addictions.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and practical, combining client-centered listening with skills from CBT and DBT and attention to attachment patterns and emotions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She brings roughly ten years of clinical experience, much of it in outpatient community mental health in New York.

What are her credentials and location?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with clients outside the United States?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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