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Jennifer Gilman

Jennifer Gilman

LMFT

Therapist · California · 32+ years of experience

Experienced California therapist for emotion and relationship struggles

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  • Californian LMFT
  • 32 years experience
  • Focus on anger

About Jennifer

Jennifer Gilman is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in California. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, anger, grief, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and other major life changes. Jennifer draws on decades of experience to offer steady support when emotions feel overwhelming.

She frames sessions as a warm, nonjudgmental place to talk through what matters most. Conversations focus on understanding patterns, building clearer communication, and finding practical ways to manage strong emotions. Jennifer emphasizes skills people can use between sessions to reduce reactivity and improve daily functioning.

Over 32 years in the field have given her experience across many concerns. She has supported people dealing with addiction, bipolar challenges, career stress, compassion fatigue, and identity questions including LGBT concerns. She also addresses issues such as ADHD, intimacy struggles, eating and sleeping disruptions, and caregiver stress.

Her work tends to be collaborative and goal-oriented. Jennifer partners with each person to set priorities and try approaches that fit their life. Progress is measured by what actually changes day to day, like fewer angry outbursts, better sleep, or clearer communication with loved ones.

People seeking help can expect straightforward conversation, practical tools, and a respectful approach to difficult topics such as trauma, abandonment, and attachment concerns. She practices as a California LMFT and offers services in English.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

32+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Approaches for managing emotions and relationships online

Jennifer uses well established, evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide work on stress, anger, and relationship problems. One common focus is on learning practical emotion regulation skills that teach people how to notice triggers, slow down automatic reactions, and choose different responses when feeling overwhelmed. These skills help with anger, anxiety, and mood shifts.

Another frequent area of work is improving communication and relational patterns. This involves identifying recurring interaction cycles, practicing clearer expressions of needs, and rehearsing new ways to set boundaries and resolve conflict. That kind of work supports better connection and fewer reactive outbursts.

Finding the right approach is part of the process, and Jennifer treats it as a shared task. She will talk with each person about goals and preferences and then try methods that fit their situation. The plan can be adjusted over time based on what helps most.

If you are considering online work, confirm the session formats offered before booking since formats are not detailed in the biography. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter or more flexible check-ins when needed. Licensed professionals can use these options to help clients practice skills between sessions and apply them in real life.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
32+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 36387
NPI
1295832491

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Jennifer help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, grief, relationship and family issues, parenting concerns, addictions, and related life changes.

What is her therapy style like?

Her approach is warm and collaborative. Sessions focus on understanding patterns, improving communication, and learning practical skills to manage emotions.

How much experience does she have?

Jennifer brings 32 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of emotional and relationship issues.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in California.

Which languages are offered and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options with the platform before booking.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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