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Henry "Jay" Swedlaw

Henry "Jay" Swedlaw

LPCC, LCMHC

Therapist · Texas · 20+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical care for big emotions

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  • 20 years experience
  • Affirming approach
  • Goal focused

About Henry

Henry "Jay" Swedlaw is a licensed professional counselor (LPCC) and a licensed clinical mental health counselor (LCMHC) with twenty years of clinical experience. He practices from Texas and supports people working through stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship strain, and identity concerns. Jay aims to make therapy feel straightforward and relevant to everyday life.

He focuses on clear, practical steps rather than jargon. Sessions usually look at what matters most now and build small habits that change day-to-day functioning. He often blends mindfulness and behavior-focused tools to help people manage strong emotions and improve communication.

Jay has a long history of helping people facing life transitions, grief, and addictive patterns. He also supports those working through issues around sexuality, gender, and alternative relationship styles. His background includes addressing trauma, parenting strain, work stress, and burnout concerns such as compassion fatigue.

People describe his style as direct but warm, aimed at helping clients get unstuck and find workable solutions. He uses approaches like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Narrative Therapy to tailor work to each person’s needs. He helps clients set realistic goals and tracks progress between sessions.

For those wanting to begin, he asks straightforward questions to match goals with methods. He encourages honest conversation about what is and isn’t working, and adjusts plans as needed to keep progress practical and sustainable.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSInfidelityMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Florida, Texas, Wyoming, New Mexico, Arizona, New Hampshire, California

Languages

English

How his approach and online work come together

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people get clear about values and take small actions that match those values even when emotions are strong. It can help with anxiety, depression, and getting unstuck from painful patterns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors with practical exercises and experiments, which is useful for stress, anger, and mood problems. Mindfulness Therapy teaches paying attention to the present moment and noticing thoughts without jumping to action, a helpful skill for emotion regulation and coping with urges.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Jay will work with each person to pick methods that fit their goals, preferences, and day-to-day realities. He checks in and adjusts the plan if something isn’t working, aiming for clear steps and measurable progress.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by removing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins around work breaks, or letting someone choose whether to use video or audio depending on bandwidth and comfort. Licensed professionals can use these methods to deliver the same tools and skills as in-person work while focusing on practical change.

At a glance

Listed location
Texas
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LPCC, LCMHC
Languages
English
License (Florida)
LMHC · No. MH10621
License (Texas)
LPC · No. 75476
License (Wyoming)
LPC · No. LPC-1776
License (New Mexico)
LPCC · No. CTB-2023-0942
License (Arizona)
LPC · No. LPC-22824
License (New Hampshire)
LCMHC · No. 2837
License (California)
LPCC · No. 22321
NPI
1528357167

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, trauma and grief. Additional focus areas include body image, codependency, ADHD, and sexual or gender identity questions.

What is his therapeutic style?

Jay uses practical, down-to-earth methods that focus on small changes and clear goals. He blends mindfulness, behavior-focused work, and storytelling techniques to help people manage emotions and improve relationships.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He brings twenty years of clinical experience to his practice and two decades of work with clients on issues like trauma, addiction, and life transitions.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He holds LPCC and LCMHC credentials and is based in Texas.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and he also accepts international clients.

What session formats does he offer?

Session formats are not listed in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are available.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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