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Ingried Upingasana

Ingried Upingasana

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Compassionate counsellor for everyday challenges

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  • Focus on anger
  • Client-centred care
  • Evidence-based tools

About Ingried

Ingried Upingasana is a counsellor who focuses on helping people who feel overwhelmed by stress, anger, anxiety or life changes. She offers a calm, respectful space where clients can talk through difficult feelings and build practical ways to cope. Her style suits people who want steady support and clear steps forward.

With five years of practice, Ingried blends several approaches to match each person’s needs. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thinking patterns and Mindfulness to build present-moment awareness. Client-centred work helps people feel heard, while motivational interviewing supports readiness for change.

She pays attention to how past wounds and attachment issues shape current reactions. That means sessions often look at early relationships, patterns of avoidance or control, and how those show up in parenting, intimacy, work or friendships. When trauma or abuse is part of the story, she works gently and at a pace the client sets.

Ingried also brings elements of positive psychology into therapy. That involves small, practical exercises such as gratitude practices and noticing strengths to increase resilience and hope. These tools are used alongside talking and problem-solving.

Clients from LGBTQ+ backgrounds are explicitly welcomed and affirmed. Sessions can also include reflections on faith and spirituality when this matters to the person. People interested in addressing anger will find help to understand triggers, build self-control strategies and repair relationships over time.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Afrikaans

Approaches used and how online work can help

Ingried commonly draws on Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness in her practice. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening closely and reflecting what matters to you so you feel understood and supported. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and helps you try small changes to break unhelpful cycles. Mindfulness Therapy builds simple attention and breathing skills to reduce reactivity and improve emotional regulation.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Ingried will collaborate with each person to decide which methods suit their goals, pace and situation. Together they set priorities, try tools, and adjust the plan based on what helps most.

If you are considering online therapy, check the session options before booking since formats are not specified in the profile. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people continue therapy while managing work, family or health commitments. Registered or accredited professionals, including therapists, commonly use these options to maintain continuity of care and adapt session length or frequency to your life.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
5+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English, Afrikaans
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 404789

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be addressed?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, anger and relationship problems, plus issues such as addictions, self-esteem and coping with life changes.

What is the therapist's general approach?

The approach combines client-centred listening with practical methods from CBT and mindfulness, alongside motivational interviewing and psychodynamic ideas when helpful.

How much experience does she have?

Ingried has five years of experience working with a range of emotional and behavioural concerns.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is registered with the BACP and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed in the profile.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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