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Heather McQuay

Heather McQuay

LCSW-C

Therapist · Maryland · 20+ years of experience

Experienced LCSW-C helping with anger and stress

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  • Person-centered care
  • Practical skills
  • Collaborative planning

About Heather

Heather McQuay is a Licensed Certified Social Worker-Clinical (LCSW-C) practicing in Maryland. She brings more than 20 years in human services and over a decade as a licensed therapist to sessions. Heather focuses on everyday struggles like anxiety, stress, anger, depression, grief, and major life changes. She also helps people facing trauma from childhood or adulthood.

Her style is warm and person-centered. She listens first and helps clients set goals that feel useful and doable. Heather combines practical tools with conversations that surface strength and hope. She aims to make sessions feel collaborative rather than prescriptive.

Heather uses several common therapy approaches to suit different needs. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people notice patterns of thinking and change unhelpful habits. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy supports choosing valued actions even when emotions are difficult. Dialectical Behavior Therapy offers concrete skills for managing intense feelings and improving relationships.

She has worked with people dealing with parenting strain, caregiving stress, relationship conflict, ADHD, bipolar mood concerns, and career pressures. Additional focus areas include abandonment, adoption and foster care issues, aging and geriatric concerns, chronic illness and pain, body image, codependency, and communication problems.

Heather works in Maryland and conducts sessions in English. She emphasizes a steady, respectful pace so people can build coping skills and make decisions that fit their lives. To begin, she asks prospective clients to complete a brief matching questionnaire and then schedule according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Maryland

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work

Heather frequently draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy when working with people online. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy encourages noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choosing actions that match personal values; it can help with anxiety, grief, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying thought and behavior patterns and trying small experiments to reduce distress and improve daily functioning.

Choosing the best approach is part of the process. Heather will collaborate with each person to find what fits their needs, goals, and preferences. She adapts techniques over time so sessions respond to what is helping and what’s not, rather than assuming one method suits everyone.

Session formats are not listed in the original biography, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work helpful because it can fit more easily into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Online sessions also make it possible to practice skills in the settings where problems occur and then talk through how those attempts went at the next appointment.

At a glance

Listed location
Maryland
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LCSW-C
Languages
English
License (Maryland)
LCSW-C · No. 14115
NPI
1164661682

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Heather commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting strain, relationship and family issues, and related areas such as ADHD and bipolar mood concerns.

What is her general therapeutic style?

She follows a person-centered approach, listening first and collaborating on goals. Sessions combine listening with practical tools tailored to each person.

How much experience does she have?

Heather has more than 20 years in the human services field and over a decade practicing as a licensed therapist.

What credentials and region are listed?

She holds LCSW-C licensure in Maryland and practices in that state.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with Heather?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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