Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Heather Friend

Heather Friend

LCSW, CSW

Therapist · Colorado · 8+ years of experience

Calm, practical help for anger and stress

Continue with Heather

Opens BetterHelp in a new tab, where you can review online therapy options.

  • Warm listening
  • Skills focused
  • Flexible scheduling

About Heather

Heather Friend, LCSW, CSW, offers calm, practical support for people coping with anger, stress, anxiety, grief, and relationship strain. She greets new clients with a warm, nonjudgmental style and focuses on helping people notice their strengths. Sessions move at a steady, comfortable pace so people can build confidence and emotional clarity without pressure.

Her approach is collaborative and straightforward. Heather listens first, then helps people name what feels most urgent. She uses tools from cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy to help manage intense emotions, along with acceptance and commitment techniques to clarify values and goals.

Heather also draws on attachment-informed ideas and client-centered listening to help clients feel understood and steady during hard moments. She works with a wide range of concerns, including trauma, parenting stress, addictions, ADHD, and coping with life changes. When relevant, she addresses issues like body image, caregiver strain, and relationship intimacy.

Sessions are 45 minutes and offered at a variety of times, including daily, evenings, and weekends. Clients may message between sessions for additional support and Heather typically replies within 24 hours. Fees vary with location and the subscription used, which can be canceled at any time.

To begin, use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time that fits with the therapist's calendar. Heather practices in Colorado and offers services in English, and she accepts international clients.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issues

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

Colorado, Michigan, Illinois, Louisiana

Languages

English

How Heather’s approaches fit with online work

Heather uses cognitive behavioral therapy to help people notice unhelpful thinking and try small behavior changes. CBT is practical and works well for anger, anxiety, and mood shifts. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters to them and take small actions toward those values, even when emotions are strong. That can be useful for coping with grief, self-esteem struggles, and life transitions.

She also brings an attachment-informed, client-centered stance that focuses on listening, building trust, and understanding relationship patterns. Together, these approaches are used collaboratively; Heather will talk with each person about goals and try different tools to find what fits best. Deciding which methods to use is part of the work rather than a one-time choice.

The profile notes that live sessions are 45 minutes, offered at a variety of times including daily, evenings, and weekends, and that clients may message between sessions for extra support. Confirm the current session options before booking so you know which formats and times are available. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time so people can use breaks or evenings more easily.

At a glance

Listed location
Colorado
Experience
8+ years
Credentials
LCSW, CSW
Languages
English
License (Colorado)
LCSW · No. CSW.09927984
License (Michigan)
LMSW · No. 6801117005
License (Illinois)
LCSW · No. 149026353
License (Louisiana)
LCSW · No. 19767
NPI
1366083321

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Heather commonly address?

She supports people with anger, stress, anxiety, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting pressures, addictions, ADHD, depression, and related life changes.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm, nonjudgmental, and collaborative. She listens first and then works with each person to set a comfortable pace and clear goals.

What kind of experience does she bring?

Heather has eight years of clinical experience working with a range of emotional and behavioral concerns and complex life stressors.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LCSW and CSW credentials and practices in Colorado.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The biography lists 45-minute live sessions with daily, evening, and weekend times and mentions messaging between sessions; confirm current session options before booking.

How does cost and payment work?

Fees vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist's calendar.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
Heather FriendContinue with Heather