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Gretchen  Raring

Gretchen Raring

LICSW, LCSW

Therapist · New Jersey · 24+ years of experience

Experienced social worker focusing on practical change

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  • Acceptance oriented
  • Skill building
  • Collaborative style

About Gretchen

Gretchen Raring is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in New Jersey. She brings 24 years of practice to sessions and aims to help people manage stress, anger, anxiety, relationship struggles, and life transitions in straightforward ways.

Gretchen uses a warm, down-to-earth style. She emphasizes acceptance and collaboration, listening first and offering practical tools next. Sessions mix conversation about what matters most with exercises that build new skills for daily life.

Her background includes work in mental health, addiction, homelessness, incarceration, and veteran services. That variety shaped a flexible approach that adapts to different life situations and challenges. She draws on multiple methods to meet clients where they are.

In therapy she helps people sort through grief, trauma, coping with chronic illness, parenting strain, and issues that affect self-esteem. She also addresses concerns such as ADHD, bipolar symptoms, and substance use by focusing on goals people set for themselves.

Gretchen blends acceptance-based ideas with cognitive and emotion-focused techniques. She encourages clients to notice patterns, try new behaviors, and practice small changes that add up. The work is collaborative and paced to each person's needs.

To start, readers can expect a clear plan and simple homework when helpful. Sessions aim to leave people with usable strategies for calmer days and stronger relationships.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

New Jersey, Florida, Massachusetts, North Dakota, Arizona

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches fit into online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then take actions that match their values. It is often useful for stress, anxiety, and anger when someone wants clearer direction for daily choices.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and testing new behaviors. CBT offers step-by-step tools for problems like anxiety, sleep troubles, and mood shifts.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) emphasizes understanding and changing emotional patterns in relationships. It can help people who want to improve closeness, manage intense feelings, or repair interactions with partners or loved ones.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, try methods that fit, and adjust based on what helps most. This is a collaborative process rather than a one-size-fits-all plan.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into busy schedules and reducing travel time. Online work can make it easier to keep regular appointments around work or caregiving demands and to practice skills in real-life settings. Because session formats were not specified in the biography, confirm current options before booking to ensure the setup matches personal needs.

At a glance

Listed location
New Jersey
Experience
24+ years
Credentials
LICSW, LCSW
Languages
English
License (New Jersey)
LCSW · No. 44SC05318800
License (Florida)
LCSW · No. SW15156
License (Massachusetts)
LICSW · No. LICSW124622
License (North Dakota)
LCSW · No. 6418
License (Arizona)
LCSW · No. LCSW-21898
NPI
1194878371

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be addressed in therapy?

Common concerns include stress, anger, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, trauma, parenting strain, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe the therapeutic style?

The approach is collaborative and client-centered, combining acceptance, practical exercises, and emotion-focused work to build new skills and coping strategies.

What is Gretchen's professional background?

She has 24 years of experience across mental health, addiction services, homelessness, incarceration, and veteran support settings.

What credentials and location are listed?

Credentials shown are LICSW and LCSW, and practice is based in New Jersey.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

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Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
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