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Erika Haines

Erika Haines

LMFT

Therapist · California · 13+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical therapy for anger and life stress

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  • Warm conversational style
  • Practical skill building
  • English and Spanish

About Erika

Erika Haines is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California. She helps people facing anger, stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, relationship strain, grief, trauma, parenting challenges, and other concerns. Erika speaks English and Spanish and brings 13 years of experience to sessions.

Her style is warm and straightforward. She aims to make conversation feel safe and human, and she uses gentle humor when it fits. Clients can expect an inviting tone that keeps the focus on practical next steps.

Erika draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people understand how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect. She also uses Client-Centered methods to listen closely and reflect what matters most to the person. For shorter-term work she uses Solution-Focused techniques to identify immediate goals and small steps toward change.

In sessions she addresses both immediate problems and longer patterns. That can mean skills for managing anger or anxiety now, and exploring deeper issues such as past trauma or relationship patterns. She supports people through life transitions, addiction recovery, parenting strain, and self-esteem work.

Erika emphasizes collaboration. She and the client set goals together and track progress. People leave sessions with concrete tools and clearer next steps tailored to their situation.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesAnger managementDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsImmigration issuesInfidelityMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Jungian TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English, Spanish

How her approaches fit into online therapy

Erika uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and change unhelpful thought and behavior patterns. CBT is practical and often focuses on coping skills for anxiety, anger, and mood problems. Client-Centered Therapy is another main approach; it centers on listening, empathy, and helping the person feel understood as they figure things out.

Choosing the best approach is a shared process. Erika discusses goals and preferences with each person and adjusts methods as needed. Together they decide whether to focus on short-term solutions, deeper patterns, or a mix of both based on what the client wants to achieve.

Confirm the available session formats before booking since formats were not specified in the biography. Online work can make it easier to schedule sessions around work, school, or caregiving. It also allows shorter check-ins when time is tight and can reduce travel time, helping therapy fit into a busy routine.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
13+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English, Spanish
License (California)
LMFT · No. 48589
NPI
1487242871

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she help with?

She supports people with anger, stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting, self-esteem, ADHD, and related problems.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is compassionate, direct, and often gently humorous. Sessions focus on listening, practical steps, and tools that can be used between meetings.

What is her experience background?

She has 13 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of concerns including domestic violence, addiction, mood and anxiety issues, and aging-related challenges.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California and practices there.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

She does not accept international clients and provides therapy only to people who reside in California.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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