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Eric Bolella

Eric Bolella

LMFT

Therapist · Connecticut · 10+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical help for life stressors

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  • Trauma focused
  • Solution oriented
  • Telehealth practice

About Eric

Eric Bolella is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) who brings ten years of clinical work to his practice. He offers a calm, direct way of talking through problems like depression, anxiety, grief, and anger. Eric practices in Connecticut and currently sees clients using telehealth services.

He began his clinical path after earning a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Central Connecticut State University in 2013. Early work in outpatient settings included supporting inner-city youth and low-income families. He has experience running therapeutic group homes for adolescents and managing a state-funded domestic violence program focused on changing abusive behavior and repairing family connections.

Eric describes himself as a systemic thinker who focuses on trauma. He uses solution-focused strategies combined with a conversational, Socratic style. He also draws on Internal Family Systems ideas, Compassionate Inquiry influences, and narrative methods to help people understand their patterns and stories.

In sessions he aims to help people identify small, practical steps they can try between meetings. He works with common life stresses, parenting and family-of-origin concerns, attachment and abandonment issues, and intimacy challenges. He also supports people managing caregiving strain, body image concerns, and the emotional impact of illness.

People can expect a straightforward approach that mixes short-term problem solving with deeper attention to how past experiences shape current reactions. To begin, readers should confirm current session options before booking.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Domestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGender dysphoriaImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

Connecticut

Languages

English

How his approaches adapt to online therapy

Eric uses Client-Centered Therapy to make sessions centered on the person’s own goals and priorities, helping people feel heard while they sort out what matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to notice and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors with clear, practical exercises that can be tried between sessions. Mindfulness Therapy helps people build simple awareness skills to reduce reactivity and manage stress over time.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. He will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. That collaborative process guides whether more solution-focused tools, narrative work, or mindfulness practices are emphasized in sessions.

For online therapy logistics, confirm current session options before booking. Eric currently practices via telehealth services, so check how scheduling fits your routine. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-in visits when needed. A therapist will help tailor frequency and tools so sessions fit practical life demands rather than promising a specific outcome.

At a glance

Listed location
Connecticut
Experience
10+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Connecticut)
LMFT · No. 1755
NPI
1518341809

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Eric help with?

He works with issues such as trauma and abuse, grief, stress, anxiety, anger, depression, and intimacy-related problems. Additional areas include parenting stress, body image, caregiver strain, and family of origin concerns.

What is his general therapy style?

His style is systemic and trauma-focused, using solution-focused strategies and a Socratic conversational approach. He blends narrative perspectives and mindfulness-influenced practices to help people notice patterns and try new responses.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has ten years of clinical experience, including outpatient work with youth and families, managing therapeutic adolescent group homes, and overseeing a state-funded domestic violence program.

Where is he licensed and based?

He is a CT LMFT and practices in Connecticut. Sessions are provided through his current telehealth practice.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost and how are they billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Readers should confirm rates during the matching process.

How do I start therapy with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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