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Elsbeth Riemer

Elsbeth Riemer

LMHC, LMFT

Therapist · Massachusetts · 20+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for anger and life strain

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  • 20 years experience
  • Family systems focus
  • Practical skills

About Elsbeth

Elsbeth Riemer is a licensed mental health counselor and licensed marriage and family therapist with 20 years of clinical experience. She helps people manage anger, anxiety, stress, depression, relationship strain, and other life challenges. She brings a practical, down-to-earth style and a sense of humor to sessions to help people stay connected to the work.

Elsbeth begins from a belief that people are part of larger life systems. She pays attention to family patterns, caregiving roles, and how relationships shape behavior. She also looks at how the body and biology affect feelings and reactions, and she uses that perspective to make sense of difficult symptoms.

Her approach blends client-centered listening with structured skills work. She draws from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy tools to address impulsivity, anger, and anxiety. She also uses attachment-focused ideas and emotionally-focused work to help with relationship and intimacy concerns.

Elsbeth describes her work as collaborative and experiential. She offers concrete strategies as well as opportunities to practice new responses in session. Humor and straightforward feedback are part of how she builds rapport and momentum.

She works in Massachusetts and conducts sessions in English. Her credentials are MA LMHC and MA LMFT. People who are interested in starting can expect a therapist who balances practical skills with attention to family patterns and the body’s role in emotions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Massachusetts, Massachusetts

Languages

English

How her approaches fit online therapy

Elsbeth draws on several evidence-informed approaches and adapts them to clients' needs. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how close relationships shape emotional responses and helps people rebuild trust and connection in key relationships. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes active listening and the client's own goals, giving people space to set the pace and direction of work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets thoughts and behaviors with clear exercises, making it useful for anger, anxiety, and mood problems.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and day-to-day challenges and then recommend or combine methods that feel most helpful. That collaborative process makes it easier to try techniques and adjust them over time.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the available session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It can also support using homework between sessions, practicing skills in real life, and maintaining continuity through life changes. Licensed professionals will help you decide whether the approaches described above match your needs and how to adapt them for remote sessions.

At a glance

Listed location
Massachusetts
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LMHC, LMFT
Languages
English
License (Massachusetts)
LMFT · No. LMFT1418
License (Massachusetts)
LMHC · No. 6087
NPI
1730240904

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people dealing with anger, anxiety, stress, depression, relationship and family difficulties, trauma, grief, addiction issues, and related struggles such as impulsivity and codependency.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and direct, mixing client-centered listening with hands-on skills practice and occasional humor to keep the work grounded.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of clinical experience working with a range of mood, relationship, and trauma-related concerns.

What credentials and region are listed?

She holds MA LMHC and MA LMFT credentials and practices in Massachusetts.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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