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Ellen Goodloe

Ellen Goodloe

LCSW, CSW

Therapist · Virginia · 27+ years of experience

Compassionate LCSW helping manage anger and stress

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  • 27 years experience
  • Military and veteran focus
  • Practical skills driven

About Ellen

Ellen Goodloe is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 27 years of professional experience. She helps people manage anger, relationship struggles, stress, anxiety, and low self-esteem. Ellen also supports those facing career challenges, parenting strain, grief, and issues related to trauma and abuse.

She has worked with military and veteran populations and brings that experience into sessions when relevant. Ellen values treating people with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. She focuses on each person’s strengths while addressing the negative self-talk that can make change feel impossible.

Her style is pragmatic and adaptable. She uses a variety of evidence-based techniques and shapes conversations to match a person’s needs and goals. Sessions are built around practical steps people can try between meetings and clearer ways to understand upsetting emotions.

Therapy with Ellen centers on teamwork. She helps people set realistic goals, practice new skills, and track progress over time. The aim is to increase confidence, reduce anger and stress, and improve relationships and daily functioning.

Taking the first step can feel intimidating, and Ellen frames that step as part of a growth process. She offers steady support, straightforward guidance, and a focus on what will help the person move forward. She looks forward to helping people make meaningful, manageable changes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Experience

27+ years

Credentials

Colorado, Virginia

Languages

English

Evidence-based approaches for anger and life stress

Many therapists combine a few evidence-based techniques to help with anger, trauma, and relationship difficulties. Cognitive approaches help people notice and change the thoughts that feed anger and low self-esteem, teaching practical ways to reframe unhelpful thinking. Behavioral strategies focus on skill-building, such as pacing confrontations, using relaxation or grounding techniques, and practicing new communication habits in everyday situations.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which techniques fit their goals, needs, and preferences. That process may include trying different strategies and keeping what helps while adjusting what does not.

If you are considering online work, confirm current session formats before booking since the biography does not list them. Many people choose remote sessions because they can fit meetings into a busy day, avoid travel, or use phone options when bandwidth or camera use is a concern. Others prefer in-person meetings when available. The therapist will discuss practical scheduling and format details to help sessions fit into daily life.

At a glance

Listed location
Virginia
Experience
27+ years
Credentials
LCSW, CSW
Languages
English
License (Colorado)
LCSW · No. CSW.00992252
License (Virginia)
LCSW · No. 0904014392
NPI
1558075341

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

Ellen works with people facing anger, relationship problems, stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and related challenges. She also supports career struggles, parenting strain, self-esteem, and intimacy-related issues.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She uses a practical, adaptable approach and tailors conversations to each person. Sessions focus on clear goals and skills people can use between meetings.

What is her background and experience?

She has 27 years of professional experience and has worked with people dealing with trauma, abuse, and military or veteran issues.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LCSW and CSW credentials and is based in Virginia. The profile also notes a Colorado Licensed Clinical Social Worker background.

In what language are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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