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Devorah Knaff

Devorah Knaff

LMFT

Therapist · California · 11+ years of experience

Compassionate partner for change

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  • Relationship support
  • Trauma and grief
  • Anger focus

About Devorah

Devorah Knaff is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with 11 years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people facing relationship strain, trauma, grief, anxiety, anger, and life transitions. She emphasizes the person’s own knowledge of their story and strengths as the starting place for change.

Devorah works in a direct, supportive way. She treats clients as partners in figuring out what helps. Sessions tend to involve listening closely to what matters most, identifying realistic next steps, and trying new ways of coping between meetings. She encourages small experiments that build confidence over time.

Her approach draws from client-centered work that centers the person’s perspective. She also uses existential ideas to look at values and meaning, and narrative methods to reframe difficult stories. Motivational interviewing can help when someone feels stuck about making changes.

Many people come to her for issues tied to family of origin, parenting concerns, adoption and foster care questions, or gender and identity matters. She also supports those coping with chronic illness, fertility or fatherhood related stress, and problems with sleep or isolation. Anger and intimacy-related concerns are explicitly listed among her focus areas.

Devorah aims to make the first steps manageable. She invites clients to name what feels most urgent and to set small, achievable goals. The work moves at a pace set by each person’s needs and comfort.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGrief

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesChronic pain, illness, and disabilityDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyJungian TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Client-centered therapy places the person’s experience at the center. The therapist listens without judgment and follows what the client says matters most, then helps name practical next steps that fit daily life. Existential therapy looks at values, meaning, and choice when life feels uncertain or overwhelming; it can help people struggling with major changes or questions about purpose.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what techniques feel most useful. That conversation is collaborative and can evolve as needs change over time.

Confirm the current online session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when a full in-person visit would be hard. They can also support continuity of care during life transitions and make it simpler to balance work, parenting, or medical appointments with regular sessions.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
11+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 53641
NPI
1932382710

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Devorah help with?

She supports people with relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, anxiety, depression, anger, sleep problems, parenting concerns, and life transitions.

What is her style of therapy like?

Sessions are collaborative and person-centered, with emphasis on the client’s own strengths and goals. She mixes listening, goal-setting, and practical steps to try between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

She brings 11 years of professional experience working with a range of concerns including family of origin issues, adoption and foster care, and gender-related matters.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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