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Debra Hayman

Debra Hayman

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 8+ years of experience

Practical, listening-led counselling for strained relationships

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Practical change focus
  • Works with trauma

About Debra

Debra Hayman is a BACP-registered counsellor with eight years of professional practice. She offers a listening space where people can talk without judgement and begin to make sense of difficult feelings and reactions. Debra aims to help people who feel stuck by talking through what is happening and finding practical next steps.

She uses several therapeutic approaches and chooses them to fit each person’s situation. That means sessions can focus on how thoughts and behaviours interact, how emotions shape relationships, or on being more present with difficult feelings. Debra draws on her past work supporting people with drug and alcohol misuse and related problems when those issues are relevant.

Her main areas of focus include relationship strain, low self-esteem and trauma. She also supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, anger, grief, eating concerns and life changes. Additional areas addressed include caregiver strain, blended family adjustments, body image and communication difficulties.

In sessions she aims for clarity and practical change. Conversations often look at patterns that keep problems going and try small experiments to break them. Debra encourages clients to set realistic goals and to notice progress between meetings.

Debra works from the United Kingdom and offers help in English. She accepts international clients and asks people to use the Start Therapy button to begin the matching process and schedule according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the client's perspective. It helps people feel heard and clarifies their priorities. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and behaviours together and is useful for tackling anxiety, low mood and unhelpful patterns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) explores emotional responses that affect close relationships and can help people change interaction patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss your situation and try methods that fit your goals and preferences. That conversation is collaborative, and adjustments are made as you learn what helps most.

The biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm the available options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, remove travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also help people join from different countries, which is relevant here because the counsellor accepts international clients. Talk with the therapist during the matching process about which session arrangements suit your day-to-day life.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
8+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 375321

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this counsellor help with?

Debra supports people with relationship strain, low self-esteem and trauma, and also works with stress, anxiety, anger, addictions, grief and eating-related concerns.

What is the therapy style and approach?

She blends client-centred work with cognitive behavioural techniques, emotionally-focused ideas and mindfulness. Sessions aim to be practical and tailored to each person's needs.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has eight years of professional experience, including seven years working with drug and alcohol misuse as part of that background.

What credentials and location should I know about?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can she work with people abroad?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking so you know whether online, phone or in-person sessions are offered.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time so fees will depend on the chosen plan.

How do I begin working with this counsellor?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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