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Deborah Hilyard

Deborah Hilyard

LMHC

Therapist · Florida · 34+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor with decades of practical care

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  • 34 years experience
  • Florida LMHC
  • Focus on anger

About Deborah

Deborah Hilyard is a licensed mental health counselor in Florida with 34 years of experience. She earned her graduate degree in counseling from the University of Memphis in 1988 and has spent decades helping people manage stress, anger, anxiety, depression, and major life transitions. Her work has included career counseling and programs supporting people leaving military service, as well as mental health support for service members and their families.

Deborah’s approach is warm and interactive. She treats people with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, and avoids stigmatizing labels. Sessions focus on practical steps clients can use immediately, with conversations shaped to meet each person’s needs.

Her background includes work in family centers for the U.S. Air Force and U.S. Navy, foster care assessments, and counseling for survivors of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. She has helped people facing relationship strain, parenting challenges, career discord, addiction concerns, grief, and caregiving stress.

Clinically, Deborah draws from client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing. She blends these approaches to create a plan that fits each person rather than using a one-size-fits-all method.

Deborah emphasizes collaboration and practical tools. She supports people ready to take steps toward change, whether they are dealing with intense emotions, coping with loss, or trying to improve everyday functioning.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

34+ years

Credentials

Florida

Languages

English

How Deborah’s Approaches Translate Online

Client-centered therapy focuses on your concerns and priorities. The therapist listens closely, reflects what she hears, and helps you set goals that feel right for your life. Cognitive behavioral therapy looks at how thoughts affect feelings and actions and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns. EMDR uses guided attention during recall of painful memories to reduce their emotional hold and can help with trauma-related symptoms.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Deborah will talk with each person about their goals and try methods that fit their needs and preferences. She adapts the plan as progress is made so the approach remains useful and practical.

Confirm current session options before booking since formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy week, shorten travel time, and allow for quick check-ins on stressful days. It also lets people try techniques such as mindfulness or CBT worksheets while still getting guidance from a licensed professional. If you want to explore working remotely, check the available session options and schedule a first appointment to discuss what will work best for you.

At a glance

Listed location
Florida
Experience
34+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (Florida)
LMHC · No. MH4832
NPI
1538239991

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, depression, grief, addictions, relationship challenges, parenting strain, and caregiving stress.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and interactive. Sessions focus on respectful conversation and practical steps clients can use between meetings.

How long has she been practicing?

She has 34 years of clinical experience, including work in military family centers and foster care assessments.

What credentials and where is she located?

She holds the LMHC credential and practices in Florida.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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