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David Mayes

David Mayes

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 8+ years of experience

Experienced client-centred counsellor

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  • Warm and approachable
  • Works with anger
  • International sessions

About David

David Mayes is a counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with eight years of experience. He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). David offers a warm, approachable space where people can talk through stressful or upsetting problems, including anger, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, and addictions.

Before training as a counsellor he worked in a range of settings including IAPT, the NHS and in a forensic environment. That background has given him experience with short and longer-term work, and with people from different cultural backgrounds. He also has experience working with people internationally and over the phone.

David uses a humanistic, client-centred way of working. Sessions focus on listening without judgement and helping people find their own solutions. He aims to make people feel understood and respected so they can speak openly about trauma, grief, sexual and relationship concerns, or struggles with self-esteem.

Practical issues such as work stress, caregiver strain, chronic illness and life transitions are also within his scope of interest. He is comfortable discussing identity and cultural concerns, and accepts people from alternative sexual cultures such as kink and BDSM.

People who prefer a straightforward, empathetic counsellor may find his style helpful. He asks people to start by completing a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How client-centred therapy works online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on giving people a respectful, non-judgemental space where they can talk about what matters to them. The counsellor listens carefully and reflects back what they hear, helping people clarify feelings and make their own decisions. This approach is often helpful for issues like anger, relationship or intimacy concerns, and low self-esteem.

The process of finding the right therapeutic approach is collaborative. The therapist will discuss your goals, preferences and what feels helpful, and then tailor sessions accordingly. If adjustments are needed, they will be made together so the work fits your needs.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions around work or family commitments and avoiding travel time. Online work can make it easier to arrange shorter check-ins or regular weekly sessions that slot into a break at work. The biography does not specify which session formats are offered, so confirm current options before booking. Registered or accredited professionals, including counsellors, often find online sessions useful for maintaining continuity of care and making therapy more accessible.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
8+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 381621

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be discussed in sessions?

David works with a wide range of concerns including anger, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, and stress related to work or caregiving.

How would you describe his way of working?

His approach is client-centred and humanistic, focusing on listening, empathy and helping people find their own solutions through open conversation.

What is his professional background?

He has eight years of experience and has worked in IAPT, the NHS and a forensic setting, seeing people for both short and longer-term work.

What professional credentials does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and regions does he support?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats here.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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