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Darlene Schmitt

Darlene Schmitt

LMHC

Therapist · New York · 33+ years of experience

Calm guidance for stressful, emotional challenges

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  • Practical tools
  • Warm listening
  • Goal focused

About Darlene

Darlene Schmitt is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in New York with 33 years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship struggles, and low self-esteem. She also works with concerns like grief, trauma, eating issues, parenting stress, and anger. Darlene aims to create an accepting, nonjudgmental space where people can start making changes at their own pace.

Darlene spends sessions asking about daily patterns and what matters most to each person. She listens for what gets in the way of the life they want and helps set practical steps toward that change. Conversations are direct but warm, with an emphasis on usable tools rather than long lectures.

Her work draws on approaches such as Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing. These methods are used to address things like panic, mood shifts, compulsive behavior, and difficulties with communication. She adapts techniques to fit an individual's goals and comfort level.

Clients can expect clear discussion of problems, collaborative goal-setting, and homework when it will help progress. Darlene supports people who face midlife transitions, relationship breakups, family of origin issues, and work stress. She also helps those dealing with shame, guilt, and sexual trauma move toward steadier daily functioning.

Her style is practical and grounded. She helps people build skills for handling intense emotions and making steady steps forward. Seeking help is framed as a courageous step, and Darlene offers steady guidance through that process.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Communication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesGuilt and shameMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

33+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How therapy approaches translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building rapport. The therapist follows the client's lead, reflects what they say, and helps them find their own solutions. This approach helps when someone needs understanding and steady support.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect. Sessions use clear steps to test unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. CBT is often helpful for anxiety, panic, mood problems, and obsessive patterns.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches skills for managing strong emotions and improving communication. It offers concrete tools for distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and better interpersonal interactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss needs, goals, and preferences and suggest methods that fit. Clients take an active role in choosing techniques and pacing the work.

Session formats are not specified in the available biography, so confirm current session options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It can also let people work with a licensed professional from another part of the state without changing their routine. These practical benefits help therapy fit into everyday life.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
33+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (New York)
LMHC · No. 000617
NPI
1639388929

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

Darlene works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, anger, relationship and intimacy-related issues, grief, trauma and abuse, eating issues, parenting, and career-related stress.

How does she approach therapy with clients?

Her work combines client-centered listening with structured techniques from cognitive behavioral and dialectical behavior therapies. Sessions mix talk, skill practice, and simple assignments when helpful.

What is her professional background?

She has 33 years of experience in mental health work across a variety of settings and focuses on supporting young adults and others facing life transitions and emotional challenges.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) licensed in New York and practices out of New York.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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