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Cheryl Backham

Cheryl Backham

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 6+ years of experience

Calm listening for difficult emotions

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Uses EMDR
  • BACP member

About Cheryl

Cheryl Backham is a counsellor who has practised for six years and holds membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). She offers a steady, listening presence for people facing difficult moments. Cheryl aims to make talking about hard things feel easier and more straightforward. She uses a person-centred style that keeps the client’s perspective at the heart of sessions. That means she follows what matters to the person in front of her, listening without judgement and reflecting back what she hears. Cheryl also uses Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) to work with distress linked to past trauma; EMDR is a structured approach that helps the brain process upsetting memories. Common concerns she supports include trauma and abuse, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship tensions, family pressures, grief, parenting strain, anger, low self-esteem, depression, and coping with life changes. She also has a focus on self-harm and sexual assault and abuse. Cheryl works to create a calm space where people can talk through these issues at their own pace. Sessions are practical and grounded. Cheryl listens, helps name what’s happening, and offers methods to manage symptoms between meetings. She collaborates on goals and adjusts pace as needed. People who prefer straightforward language and a supportive listener tend to do well with her approach. If someone wants a clear, humane way to tackle painful memories or current stresses, she aims to help them find steady steps forward.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Self-harmSexual assault and abuse

Therapeutic approaches

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, is a structured method Cheryl uses to help people process distressing memories. It typically involves recalling upsetting events while attending to guided bilateral stimulation, which can reduce the emotional intensity of those memories and help people feel less overwhelmed by them.

Her person-centred way of working focuses on listening and following what matters to the client. That approach helps clients set goals and shape sessions so practical steps feel relevant to their daily life. Together they will consider whether EMDR or talk-based work best suits the issue at hand.

Finding the right approach is a shared decision. Cheryl will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels comfortable, then adapt the plan as therapy progresses. This collaborative process helps ensure the work matches the client’s needs.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, since the biography does not list specific options. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - they can remove travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and make scheduling around work or caring duties simpler. The therapist and client can agree on practical arrangements that suit everyday routines without committing to a particular format until confirmed.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
6+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 375002

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Cheryl commonly help with?

She supports people with trauma and abuse, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and family pressures, grief, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem issues, depression, and coping with life changes. There is also a focus on self-harm and sexual assault and abuse.

What is Cheryl's therapy style like?

Her work is person-centred, which means she follows the client's concerns and reflects what she hears. Sessions are intended to be empathetic, direct, and tailored to each person's pace and goals.

How long has she practised?

She has six years of experience as a counsellor and has worked substantially with people facing a range of difficulties.

Where is Cheryl based and what are her credentials?

She is based in the United Kingdom and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

Can people use languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are used.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Cheryl?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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