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Brenda Wicks

Brenda Wicks

LMFT

Therapist · California · 23+ years of experience

Compassionate therapist for anger and stress

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  • Warm and interactive
  • Skill-based tools
  • Practical guidance

About Brenda

Brenda Wicks is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. She helps people facing anger, stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, grief, relationship concerns, parenting strain, and life transitions. Her approach is direct and supportive, aimed at helping people take practical steps forward.

Brenda draws on 23 years of experience in a range of mental health settings. She has supported people dealing with trauma and abuse, ADHD, bipolar mood concerns, compassion fatigue, and career-related stress. She also has experience assisting victims of violent crime through processing and recovery.

Her style is warm, interactive, and respectful. Sessions focus on tailoring conversations and plans to each person’s situation rather than using one-size-fits-all methods. Brenda avoids stigmatizing labels and emphasizes dignity and compassion in treatment.

Brenda blends a handful of evidence-informed approaches to guide work in therapy. Those include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Client-Centered Therapy, and Mindfulness Therapy. She adapts techniques from these models to match practical goals and daily life challenges.

People who work with her can expect clear, goal-oriented conversations and practical coping skills. The focus can range from short-term problem solving to deeper work on attachment, communication, and patterns that keep problems replaying. Brenda frames therapy as a collaborative process aimed at real change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Drug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

23+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they fit online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and understanding a person’s experience. The therapist follows the client’s lead, offering empathy and reflection to help people clarify goals and feel heard. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns; it can help with anger, anxiety, and depression. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) blends skill teaching in emotion regulation and distress tolerance with a balance of acceptance and change, useful for strong mood swings and intense reactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose or combine methods that match their goals and comfort level. That choice can shift as progress is made and needs change.

Session formats are not specified in the bio, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, cut down travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Many people find that talking from a familiar setting helps apply skills to daily routines, while others prefer longer sessions for deeper processing. Work with the therapist to set a schedule and session length that fits your routine and goals.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
23+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 51256
NPI
1720118995

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Brenda address?

She helps people with anger, stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, relationship issues, parenting strain, trauma and many life changes.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm, supportive, and interactive. Sessions focus on practical steps and tailored plans rather than one-size-fits-all solutions.

What is her professional background?

She has 23 years of experience working in a range of mental health settings and has supported people affected by traumatic events and violent crime.

What credentials and region apply?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, practicing in California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with her from outside the United States?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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