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Brenda Lauer

Brenda Lauer

LPC

Therapist · Missouri · 15+ years of experience

Warm, practical counseling for strong emotions

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  • gentle direct style
  • evidence informed methods
  • works with trauma

About Brenda

Brenda Lauer is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 15 years of clinical experience in private practice. She splits her time across part-time hours and typically works afternoons on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday in the Eastern Time zone. Brenda combines a warm, gentle manner with practical focus to help people facing strong emotional challenges.

She has worked with clients from many walks of life, including military and first responder backgrounds, and with a range of diagnoses such as post-traumatic stress, anxiety, depression, and attention concerns. Her day-to-day work is direct and down-to-earth. She listens first, then helps people choose steps that fit their life.

Brenda describes her style as respectful, compassionate, and empathetic. She starts by seeing the situation from the client's point of view, then helps expand options so people can respond differently. She avoids one-size-fits-all plans and tailors methods to each person's needs.

Her toolkit includes cognitive behavioral techniques, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy elements, emotionally focused ideas, solution-focused moves, and client-centered principles. She also works as a hypnosis coach, using that skill when it fits a person's goals.

People often come to Brenda for help with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and depression. She also addresses related concerns such as attachment issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness, body image, and communication problems. Brenda invites prospective clients to consider therapy as a practical step toward change.

She asks people to complete a brief matching questionnaire to begin and to schedule sessions according to her posted times. International clients may be accommodated and sessions are conducted in English.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

Missouri

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying what matters to someone and taking small actions toward those values while learning to live with difficult feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps identify unhelpful thoughts and habits and then practices concrete changes in thinking and behavior that reduce distress. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes being heard and respected first, with the therapist following the client's lead and helping them find their own solutions.

Choosing the right approach is often part of the first sessions. Brenda will work together with each person to decide which methods feel most useful based on goals, preferences, and what’s happening in daily life. The work is collaborative rather than one-size-fits-all.

The practical benefits of online therapy include easier fit into a busy routine and the ability to keep appointments when travel or scheduling is hard. Some formats may be better for short check-ins or when video bandwidth is limited. Confirm available session formats before booking so arrangements match personal needs and daily schedules.

At a glance

Listed location
Missouri
Experience
15+ years
Credentials
LPC
Languages
English
License (Missouri)
LPC · No. 2003002001
NPI
1114077864

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Brenda help with?

She helps people address stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and depression, plus related issues such as attachment struggles, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and communication problems.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and gentle with a practical focus. She listens closely, then works collaboratively to find steps that fit each person's life.

How much experience does she have?

She has 15 years of experience working in private practice and as a hypnosis coach, including work with military and first responder clients.

What credentials and location apply to this therapist?

She holds the LPC credential as a Licensed Professional Counselor and practices from Missouri.

Which languages and international options are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, since specific formats are not listed in the biography.

How are costs and billing handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to her availability.

Before you start

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