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Arben "Ben" Delija

Arben "Ben" Delija

BACP, NCPS

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Support for strong emotions and change

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  • Person centred care
  • Practical skills
  • Harm reduction focus

About Arben

Arben "Ben" Delija offers a straightforward, person-centred way of working. He meets people where they are and builds on their strengths. Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer thinking to help manage strong emotions like anger and stress.

Ben uses a mix of approaches matched to each person's needs. He draws on Client-Centred Therapy to create a respectful, non-judgemental space. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy helps identify unhelpful thinking patterns and try new behaviours. Dialectical Behaviour Therapy adds skills for managing intense feelings and urges.

He has five years as a counsellor alongside a longer history supporting people with drug and alcohol problems over 18 years. That background informs harm-reduction ideas and practical strategies for change. He also brings experience with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, bereavement and childhood trauma.

Ben holds BACP and NCPS credentials and works from the United Kingdom. He speaks English and Albanian and is available to work with international clients. Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

People can expect straight talk, active problem solving and skill-building in sessions. He helps with parenting pressures, relationship strain, grief, work stress and life transitions. The emphasis is on small, achievable steps that fit into everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCancerCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom, United Kingdom

Languages

English, Albanian

How Ben’s approaches translate to online therapy

Ben often draws on Client-Centred Therapy to prioritise a respectful, listening approach that helps people feel understood. That method focuses on the person in front of the counsellor and supports work on topics like self-esteem, grief and relationship stress.

He also uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to break down unhelpful thoughts and try practical changes. CBT is useful for anxiety, anger and low mood because it gives clear steps to test and adjust thinking and behaviour.

Finding the right way of working is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals and preferences and adjust the mix of approaches over time. Sessions include discussion, skill practice and homework when that helps progress.

Please confirm which session formats are offered before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats. Many people find online sessions make it easier to fit therapy around work or family life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can help arrange a practical plan so sessions suit day-to-day life.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
5+ years
Credentials
BACP, NCPS
Languages
English, Albanian
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 406737
Registration (United Kingdom)
NCPS · No. NCS22-02259

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Frequently asked questions

What issues does he help with?

He works with a wide range of concerns including anger, stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, grief and relationship problems.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses a person-centred, collaborative style and combines practical skills with reflective conversation to help people make changes.

What relevant experience does he have?

He has five years as a counsellor and 18 years working with people affected by drug and alcohol issues, including one-to-one and group work.

What qualifications and region does he represent?

He holds BACP and NCPS credentials and practices from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Albanian, and he is able to work with international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options with the platform before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography.

How are sessions charged?

Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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