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Allyson Shaffer

Allyson Shaffer

LICSW, LCSW-C

Therapist · Maryland · 20+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical care for life’s hard moments

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  • 20 years experience
  • LICSW and LCSW-C
  • Focus on anger

About Allyson

Allyson Shaffer is a licensed clinician in Maryland with more than 20 years of clinical experience. She approaches therapy with the belief that each person knows their own story and brings strengths to difficult situations. Allyson aims to support and empower people taking the first steps toward change and a more fulfilling life.

She uses practical, evidence-based techniques to help people manage stress, anxiety, anger, and grief. Sessions focus on building coping skills, improving communication, and addressing family and relationship concerns. Allyson also helps people who are dealing with trauma, caregiver stress, adoption or foster care issues, and feelings of isolation or shame.

Her work often centers on setting clear, doable goals and practicing strategies between meetings. Clients can expect straightforward guidance and tools they can use in daily life. She pays attention to cultural and social context and the ways prejudice or discrimination can affect mental health.

Allyson holds LICSW (District of Columbia) and LCSW-C (Maryland) credentials. Her background includes two decades of clinical practice across a range of concerns, from panic attacks and social anxiety to career strain and compassion fatigue.

People choose Allyson when they want a collaborative clinician who listens and offers practical steps. She supports parents facing parenting stresses, those navigating divorce or family conflict, and people coping with major life changes. Her approach is calm, direct, and focused on progress.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPrejudice and discriminationSocial anxiety and phobia

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

District of Columbia, Maryland

Languages

English

Approaches that help with anger and stress

Allyson uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on skills and problem solving. One approach she applies teaches practical coping and emotional regulation strategies to reduce intense reactions and manage stress. This helps people notice triggers, practice new responses, and handle outbursts more effectively.

Another common element in her work is improving communication and relationships. Sessions include exercises for clearer talking, setting boundaries, and repairing misunderstandings to reduce repeated conflict and resentment.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Allyson works with each person to match methods to their goals, needs, and preferences. She checks in about what is helping and adjusts plans so the work fits the client's life and priorities.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know how she is meeting with clients. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy day, shrink travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also permits seeing a licensed professional from different locations when scheduling is tight. Ask about specific formats and scheduling when you complete the matching questionnaire so sessions match your practical needs.

At a glance

Listed location
Maryland
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LICSW, LCSW-C
Languages
English
License (District of Columbia)
LICSW · No. LC303507
License (Maryland)
LCSW-C · No. 12452
NPI
1033037791

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Allyson address?

She works with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, grief, relationship and family concerns, parenting challenges, trauma and related issues such as panic, social anxiety, and compassion fatigue.

What is Allyson's style in sessions?

Her style is collaborative and practical, focusing on clear goals and skills that clients can try between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Allyson brings 20 years of professional clinical experience to her work with clients.

What credentials and location are listed for this clinician?

She holds LICSW in the District of Columbia and LCSW-C in Maryland, and her practice is based in Maryland.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Allyson?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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