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Alexander Gordon

Alexander Gordon

LMFT

Therapist · California · 3+ years of experience

Practical, flexible therapy for anger and stress

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  • Direct listening
  • Goal focused
  • Client centered

About Alexander

Alexander Gordon is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in California. He helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, addiction challenges, depression, anger, and life changes. He aims to make the first conversations simple and direct so people can decide if therapy feels like a fit.

He begins by listening closely to understand a person's daily life and main concerns. Early sessions focus on building goals together so work in therapy feels practical and relevant. Sessions move at a pace set by the client and aim to address what causes distress in everyday moments.

Alexander draws on client-centered methods to create a nonjudgmental space where people can speak openly. He also uses attachment-informed ideas to look at how past relationships affect current patterns. Cognitive behavioral tools are used to identify unhelpful thinking and try different responses to stress and impulsivity.

His approach mixes those methods and borrows mindfulness and existential perspectives when they suit the client's goals. That flexibility means techniques are chosen to match each person's needs rather than follow a single script. Alexander has three years of professional experience as an LMFT and practices in California.

People often seek his help for relationship strain, parenting stress, problems with substance use, grief, sleep disruption, low self-esteem, or persistent anger. He invites prospective clients to start with a short intake to clarify what they want from therapy.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How his approaches shape online work

Alexander uses client-centered therapy to focus conversations around what matters most to the client, offering steady listening and validation while people talk through anger, stress, or relationship concerns. Attachment-based ideas help look at how early relationship patterns influence reactions and closeness in present relationships, useful when anger or trust issues recur.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and lifestyle, adjusting the plan as progress is made. That means clients and therapist agree on goals, practice skills between sessions, and revisit what helps most.

The biography does not specify online session types, so confirm available formats before scheduling. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around daily life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It also lets people try mindfulness exercises, behavioral experiments, and skill practice in real-life settings so therapy tools carry over into everyday routines.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
3+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 140009
NPI
1659143519

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Alexander commonly address?

He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, anger, ADHD, grief, intimacy and many related concerns such as sleep problems and low self-esteem.

How would you describe his therapy style?

His style is collaborative and straightforward, combining client-centered listening with practical tools to change thoughts and behaviors.

What experience does he have?

He has three years of professional experience working as a therapist in California.

What credentials and region are listed?

He holds the LMFT credential and is listed as practicing in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current session options with the therapist before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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