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Aldona Olchanowska

Aldona Olchanowska

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 20+ years of experience

Experienced counsellor for anger and life change

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  • Person-centred
  • Motivational style
  • Systemic perspective

About Aldona

Aldona Olchanowska is a counsellor who helps people facing anger, relationship strain and life transitions. She offers calm, straightforward support for stress, anxiety, depression and grief. Sessions are aimed at making daily life easier and helping people find practical ways to cope.

Aldona brings twenty years of experience working in different countries, including the USA, Poland and the United Kingdom. She holds a Master of Education in Counselling and Guidance and a Master of Science in Special Education, and she is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

Her approach is person-centred and respectful. Aldona listens first, helps clients name what matters, and then works with them to try new ways of responding. She draws on motivational interviewing to support change and systemic ideas to look at how relationships affect feelings and behaviour.

People consult her for a wide range of concerns such as anger, addictions, eating and sleeping problems, parenting strain, intimacy and sexual issues, trauma and abuse, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. She also works with issues linked to ageing, abandonment, attachment and family-of-origin problems.

Aldona offers an affirming practice for people of all backgrounds, including LGBT clients. She speaks English and Polish and aims to make sessions clear and practical. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then arrange sessions according to the therapist's schedule.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexualitySomatizationWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMotivational InterviewingSystemic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Polish

How her approaches work in online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on understanding each person's experience and working at their pace. It is about a therapist listening without judgement, reflecting what matters, and helping people discover their own solutions; this can help with anger, low mood and self-esteem.

Motivational Interviewing is a conversational style that supports change by exploring a person's own reasons and goals. It helps with ambivalence around behaviours such as addictions, eating concerns or breaking unhelpful habits.

Systemic Therapy looks at patterns between people and how relationships shape feelings and behaviour. This perspective can be useful when family dynamics, communication problems or parenting stress are involved.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs, and then together they will decide which methods to use. That collaborative choice is revisited as therapy develops.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm the available formats before booking because the biography does not list them. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people choose times that suit their routine and manage appointments alongside work or family commitments.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English, Polish
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 383282

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

She works with a wide range of concerns including anger, stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, eating and sleeping problems, parenting strain, intimacy issues and trauma.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is person-centred and direct. She listens carefully, helps clients name their priorities, and uses motivational interviewing and systemic ideas to support change.

What is her professional background?

She has around 20 years of experience and has worked in the USA, Poland and the UK in treatment and educational settings.

What credentials and region should I know about?

She holds a Master of Education in Counselling and Guidance and a Master of Science in Special Education, and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy in the United Kingdom.

Can I have sessions in a language other than English?

Sessions are offered in English and Polish.

Are online or remote session options available?

Please confirm the current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats and session methods need to be checked directly.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I do to start working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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