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Alan Opfer

Alan Opfer

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Practical, person-centred support for tough moments

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Focus on addiction
  • Mindfulness and steps

About Alan

Alan Opfer is a counsellor who focuses on practical help for people dealing with stress, anxiety, addiction and anger. He has three years of professional experience and works from a person-centred perspective. He speaks English and practises in the United Kingdom. Alan aims to meet people without judgement and to make therapy straightforward and usable in daily life.

Alan draws on his own lived experience of addiction and mental health to inform his approach. That background shapes a practical focus on harm reduction, coping strategies and support through pre- and post-detox stages. He also helps people facing depression, grief, relationship strain and changes at work or home.

In sessions he uses Client-Centred Therapy to prioritise the person’s own goals and pace. He also offers Mindfulness Therapy to build moment-to-moment awareness and Solution-Focused Therapy to develop concrete steps forward. These approaches aim to reduce overwhelm and create small, sustainable changes.

Alan has worked in housing support and has experience interacting with clinical and community services. He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP, and brings a practical understanding of local support networks.

He supports people from diverse backgrounds, including LGBT clients, and addresses specific themes such as attachment, communication problems, chronic health challenges and issues around abandonment or foster care. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

To begin, users pick Start Therapy, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefCareer difficultiesDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s own goals and pace. In practice this means the counsellor listens closely, reflects what is said and follows the client’s lead to build trust and clarity. This approach can help people who feel overwhelmed or uncertain about where to begin.

Mindfulness Therapy trains simple awareness skills to notice thoughts, bodily reactions and emotions without getting pulled into them. It can be useful for managing anxiety, anger and stress by creating short, steady moments of calm during the day.

Solution-Focused Therapy looks for small, achievable changes that move a person toward their goals. Sessions often identify what is already working and build on those strengths to create practical next steps.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and collaborate with the client to choose what fits their needs, goals and preferences. This is a shared process rather than a fixed plan.

Confirm the session formats available before booking, as the biography does not list specific online methods. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy life - allowing shorter check-ins, easier scheduling around work, and not needing travel time. Ask about the exact session options when you arrange your first appointment to make sure they suit your routine.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
3+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 406817

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Frequently asked questions

What issues does Alan commonly help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, anger and low self-esteem, plus depression, grief and relationship difficulties.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a person-centred way of working, alongside mindfulness and solution-focused techniques that aim for practical steps and greater self-awareness.

What relevant background does he bring?

Alan has three years of professional experience and lived experience of addiction and recovery, which he says informs his practical, non-judgemental approach.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is registered with BACP, listed as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and how much do they cost?

Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time; costs vary with location and therapist availability.

How do I start if I want to try therapy with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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